If a guy isn’t interested in you is it unlikely that the reason he’s uninterested is because you’re ugly/unattractive? Is it more likely not personal?

[Anonymous]

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Looking at your age group, it's probably full of guys who may be noncommittal at this point in their life, or have feelings of uneasiness when dating becomes serious. Depending on how quickly the courtship started and ended, would provide some hints at why it stopped. Most of my dating relationships ended because I moved or it seemed we were not interested in similar lifestyles. I did not date around for sex. The best thing you can do is remember your own worth and have your own goals that are not related to anyone you decide to date.
I've always thought having personal goals were important and someone who cares about you will help you achieve them.

[Anonymous]

There is one girl I still really like but it was her behaviour that made me hold back. but still like her

[DianaWest]

it's because they want you to be their free hooker/bang maid. most men these days aren't looking for any commitment. they want to be friends with benefits and maybe after a decade or two they'll put a ring on it.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

This is so sad to hear. I hope our boys don't turn out like this. They are preteen, so we have time :-)

[RoseySarah]

Mine was that I would not put out easily!

Very odd putting to actually try to wait till marriage for sex. Most gave up in 3 dates or just texting I would stop talking when they talked sex.

[spartan55]

It's because of how you acted.

[Anonymous]

It could be either or both of those things.