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I hope i don’t sound delusional but he tends to look at me from across the halls and when he’s talking to his friends he would glance at me doing so. I’ve noticed when I talk to him he gives me all his attention and doesn’t break eye contact even when his friend was around and tried saying hi? I know he probably doesn’t like me so is this behavior normal? Or am I just over analyzing things? (We also haven’t spoken in awhile and I doubt he thinks about me even though he does tend to look at me when I walk by but that’s nothing)
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Also there are times when he is standing and I come near and he sees me but quickly turns his head the other way?
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He never talks to me first though? And I asked him for his instagram and he never followed back? I understand that he may not be active but I don’t think he likes me😭
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Yo girl, from the way you describe it, my guess is this dude might have a little crush on you or something. Here's why I think that:
- Guys don't usually just stare at girls from across the room for no reason. There's gotta be some interest there to be paying you that much attention.
- Holding eye contact with you even when his boys are around and trying to talk to him is a sign you have his focus. He's engaged when he's talking to you.
- Glancing over at you when you walk by makes it seem like he wants to sneak a peek or something. Like you're on his mind even when you're not directly interacting.
It could be he thinks you're cute but is shy about making a move. Or maybe he doesn't know if you're even single or would be into him. But from your description of his behavior, I'd say the staring and eye contact are good signs he's feeling you!
If you wanna know for sure, next time just smile and wave at him when you catch him looking. See how he reacts. That'd give you a clue if he's crushing or just being friendly. Go with your gut though sis!
Thank you, you are so kind! But I don’t think so.. he said he’s not ready for a relationship to one of my friends so I don’t have any hope.
Ah man, that's too bad about him not being ready for a relationship. Really takes the wind out of your sails, I'm sure! Sometimes guys will say stuff like that even if they are interested, just because they don't want to admit their feelings yet. But if he specifically said it to your friend, it's probably better to take him at his word for now.
Don't lose hope completely though - people's feelings can change over time, you know? Maybe just try chatting with him casually now and then to stay friendly, but don't put too much pressure on anything happening right away. He still could end up really liking you as you two get to know each other better naturally.
In the meantime, don't sweat it too much and keep doing your thing. Guys notice that kind of confidence! Who knows, you may meet someone even cooler. But no harm in keeping an eye on this guy - could turn into something cool down the road if the timing is right. Either way, don't let it get you down - plenty more fish and all that! Chin up :)
Yea he likes you.
Really?
Guys don't give that much attention to girls unless they like them, at the very least he finds you attractive. Especially if he looking at you when he is with his friends. I can't be 100% but I'm pretty positive he does.
Maybe he’s giving me that much attention because I’m the only girl he talks to?
That maybe true but if anything that makes me thinks he likes you more than before. I have had friends that were girls before but the only ones I would lock eyes with especially from across the room were the ones I liked.
Now that I think about maybe.. because my friends walk past him and say that he doesn’t glance or look at any of them?
I guarantee he likes you, he's giving you all his attention and mocking eyes with you. He's into you. If you're into him, I would let him know that you like him. I bet you he'll ask you out
He never talks to me first though? And I asked him for his instagram and he never followed back? I understand that he may not be active but I don’t think he likes me😭
I'm going to assume he is scared and nervous to ask you out. He is doing better than me I can't even keep eye contact with a girl I like out of fear. I really thinks he likes you, you just need to make it crystal clear guys are horrible at picking up girls small signs they like you. We assume at lot, or at I do, that you are just being nice. I suck at talking to girls I like I avoid them out of shyness and fear sounds like he is a little better but probably still a little scared.
Yeah I understand plus I don’t look or talk to him when I’m near him because I am afraid and I’m too shy to make any eye contact with him and so I know that I am giving him mix signals in doing so. I should talk to him more he’s really kind and he even stops himself from using the restroom just to speak to me. I give him song recommendations and he actually listens to them. But again, I heard from a friend that he is not looking for a relationship because it is “too much work” I don't know what he means by that.
The fact that he listens to what you suggest and stops from going to the bathroom just makes me more certain he likes you. The relationship being hard work is a tough one. He is right but I think he is still into you. He is at the very least attracted to you. I get being shy, I am probably more than you. Do better than me try and just let him know you are interested. Find out yourself if he really doesn't want a relationship.
Thank you so much, I’ll try!!
I wish you good luck, just be careful if he isn't looking for a relationship that he isn't just looking for some fun. It's not worth ruining any kind of friendship you may have
yeah I don’t want to ruin our friendship so I’m kind of afraid in telling him in fear of not only rejection but the loss of our friendship. I understand him though because I’m also not looking for a relationship but I still have feelings for him, though if I were to be in a relationship I would like it to be genuine.
You won't ruin it by telling him you like him. At the very least I bet he would just tell you he isn't interested. Girls rarely make any kind of move so I bet at the least he will be flattered.
You are right! Thank you so much 💗
Your welcome, good luck
He wants you! Go get him, tiger!
Uhh I don’t know about that😭thank you though!!
I think he does! Next time he looks at you like that while talking to you, just give him a quick kiss and, if he complains, just tell him you don't know what came over you but you had no control over it. If he gets pissed at you for it, at least now you KNOW he doesn't like you.
That’s silly but thanks for the suggestion but I’m definitely not doing that 😭💀
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