Guys, What's your refractory period?

Question

Has it changed over the years? How so? Longer shorter?

RavVid · Accepted Answer

I am taking this being time between ejaculating and ejaculating again.

It really depends on how excited you are and if it is a new girl or if it is a long term partner. With a LTP there is always tomorrow night. She is going to be in the same bed as you. Whereas with a new girl (NG) it is more important to get as many shots into her as possible.

I have been so excited by a NG that after ejaculating I kept going to ejaculate and kept going again for a third. I've also learnt to play mental game as I build up to ejaculating e. g. 'She needs two loads', 'I really want to do this to her next'.

I am convinced feeling sexually satisfied is the real problem. As soon as you feel satisfied you go soft.

The concept that a guys semen tank has to refill is just a hypothetical is all. There is no evidence for it. You would have to be ultra sounded to have any clinical evidence. It is a self fulfilling concept however. You fuck your wife and ejaculate then assume you have to wait for the semen tank to refill. Then maybe think I can just fuck her tomorrow night. One's OK.

So I think it is going from feeling satisfied to feeling unsatisfied that is more the dynamic.

BoopBoopBeep · Accepted Answer

Couple minutes if she's really bringing her A game. Otherwise maybe 10 for the first 3 or 4 times, after a dozen I may need a half hour rehydration break or something though because I had to get an IV afterwards once for shite electrolyte levels and I'm trying to avoid repeats there.

kareenakapur · Accepted Answer

my mans refractory period is 0 lol he cums right after another if I give him a blow job as the second one

WhiteSteve · Answer

Ideally 24 hours, since forever😂 I can pull off a second round in the same hour, if I’m being serious…. but I wouldn’t enjoy any of it myself unless there was like an 8 hour break. I’ll be in light pain the whole second round, lmao, so please appreciate the effort😝

NormalBoringGuy · Answer

Every 7 years, around the time of the cicada emergence, during which I'll spend my time organizing my sock drawer, eating plain pasta noodles, playing Scrabble with my mom, waiting for pots of water to boil, waiting in lines for no reason, and reading at least one site's terms and conditions on a daily basis.

Whitewulf · Answer

Now this is a real question and one I’m assuming this site was originally drafted for.
for me it seems like it’s getting shorter and shorter time before I feel like I need to cum again. Sometimes 15-20 sometimes 5-7 min. There has been a couple times you don’t necessarily get hard again but still need to orgasm. I don't know

summiter · Answer

I'm ready for another orgasm about 15 minutes after the first. Ones after that are a bit longer. Yes when I was a teenager I could orgasm many times in a row right after another. What have you noticed with your boyfriends?

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

It used to basically not exist. Like sometimes I would shoot and just keep going like nothing happened. Maybe slow down a little and go right back. Now I need a couple seconds.

aceleon · Answer

changes sitting position shorter i cum faster even though i enjoy it less for some reason lying down: longer even though i feel much much better.

Dr_CEI · Answer

Mine has lengthened greatly over the years. Sometimes I can go days without feeling any arousal despite my best efforts. I'm 49 for context

TadCurious · Answer

Mine has gotten longer. When I was 20 or so it was about 5 minutes. Now it's about 10. But that 10 minutes includes some "help" from my partner.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Between round 1 & 2 only about 5-10 minutes. Between round 2 & 3 about 30 minutes. No changes noted but then again I'm only 18

LiamJHayden · Answer

Generally a few hours, but I have also never gotten off in less that 30 minutes. I also make sure she gets at least one, generally more, before I even try.

LiamS95 · Answer

It varies depending on how horny I am, how well rested I am, if I've had any alcohol and how horny my partner is. It can be 5 min or it could be 15 min. It hasn't changed over time.

OddBeMe · Answer

Had to google that word. Means “staying hard in extremely hot locations.”  Are you using as how quick can I get hard after an orgasm? Two hours.

exitseven · Answer

it used to be ten or 15 minutes. Then it got to be an hour or so. Now it is a half a day..

Nice222 · Answer

It has gotten longer. In my twenties I could literally cum 2/3 times in a row without going down. Now it takes about a half hour to an hour. For a second time. And after the second I’m done.

krin_m · Answer

It has changed, and has gotten a bit longer but it always depends on the mood. Some times it can be as short as couple of minutes, usually it is about half an hour these days.

Twalli · Answer

15 minutes. I prefer 3 hours, but I can go again in 15 minutes if we keep being sexual.

scooogy · Answer

Yes and no, the bad influence has increased, but doesn't affect me permanently.

007kingifrit · Answer

depends on arousal, sometimes its an hour someitmes its a minute

NYlatefun · Answer

Like 10-15 mins and no it hasn’t changed over time. Why?

QuietRunner · Answer

10-15 minutes after round 1 longer in later rounds it has increased a little

FenixG45 · Answer

Mine is longer than it used to be. And men's are longer than women's

Anonymous · Answer

Basically none. I haven't noticed a change; but then I didn't know I was without until I ejaculated twice within 5 seconds of each other.

Anonymous · Answer

OMG, this website is nothing but a bunch of wankers, literally. Doesn't anyone on here have a life?

dudeinohio · Answer

Got much longer over the years.

Guido · Answer

It gets longer as you get older.

matchrestore · Answer

3 to 5 minutes.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Ok, guess we’re just making up words now

IloveWinters · Answer

Mine is 20 to 25mins

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I'm good I can keep going

CubaPirate · Answer

Around 10 to 15 mins

Zestyassmf1997 · Answer

My what?

dolemite58 · Answer

5-10 minutes

californianjoe · Answer

What is the refractory period, grandma?

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