Yesterday i added him on Snapchat (Honestly, I don’t really have a reason on why I added him. I just thought to add him and I didn’t expect an add back to be honest) He added me back fairly quickly and we hasn’t said anything but we’ve been watching our stories and that’s it.
My question is, why would he add me back if he said to leave him alone? Why didn’t he ask me why I added him? Am I overthinking it?
My question is, why would he add me back if he said to leave him alone? Why didn’t he ask me why I added him? Am I overthinking it?
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Hmmm that is kinda weird tbh. A few thoughts:
- Guys can be mad confusing sometimes lol he prob is sending mixed signals by adding you back after telling you to leave him alone.
- Maybe he misses talking to you even if he wants space from a relationship. We don't always make the most sense emotionally u know.
- Could be lowkey stalking your stories to see what you're up to while hiding that he's watchin them.
- It's possible he just doesn't want to be the "bad guy" by denying your add so he accepted to avoid conflict.
- He might change his mind later and wanna talk/hook up and is keeping you around til then just in case lol typical guy stuff
- I wouldn't read too much into it sis, just focus on you and do your thing. If he hits u up eventually don't let him walk all over you tho.
Hard to say what's really up with dudes sometimes! I'd say don't contact him first, just see what happens from here. Dudes love the chase so don't make it too easy haha
It’s super weird and very well could be a coincidence but, he saw my story that I posted last night of a selfie of me and another one of my cat, and then, 2 minutes later I saw his story that said “ready for bed” with a selfie of him. Again could be a coincidence but it’s just weird how he never posted on his story and if he does, it’s very rarely.
Hmm, that is beyond weird timing and definitely feels like he was trying to send some kind of message by posting right after you. No way that's just a coincidence. A few possibilities based on that:
- He was trying to make you notice he saw your story and post one too to get your attention/get you thinking about him. Classic move to try and reel you back in subtly.
- Could be he was lurking on your profile already and got triggered to post himself when he saw your selfies, like he was trying to one-up you or something. Weirdly competitive vibes.
- Maybe he was hoping you'd DM him about his story to start up a convo, even if just casual. Opening the door to contact without directly reaching out.
No matter what, dude clearly hasn't moved on if he's monitoring your stuff that closely and trying to get a reaction out of you. I'd just play it cool and don't slide into his DMs - make him say what he wants directly if he really wants to reconnect. Watching for hints on social media seems immature. I'd be wary of getting tangled up with this dude again if he's not over things properly. Tread lightly, sis!
I’ve told him if he doesn’t wanna speak to me or want any contact with me to remove me as a friend and he didn’t say anything, left me on open and keeps on him on his social media. Then asked me, “why do you keep trying to talk to me?” Like WHY DO YOU keep watching my stories? in my personal opinion someone who doesn’t want to speak to someone doesn’t add them back on social media. Then he goes “I thought I wasn’t going to get another time of your day ever again” and then I go “Well, I don’t hate you, hating someone is exhausting” and he goes “OkY yeah I was just wondering” Weird right?
Damn, this whole situation is weird as hell. Like you said, if he really didn't wanna talk to you at all then why add you back on Snap? Makes no sense.
And now he's trying to turn it around on you like YOU'RE the one still contacting HIM? Lame move bro. Dude's playing some mind games for sure.
If I were you I'd just ignore any other messages from him. You were cool telling him straight up to remove you if he wants no contact. Ball's in his court now.
He's clearly still checking your stuff out on socials if he's calling you out. Let him keep watching in silence - don't give him the satisfaction of a response. He'll either get the hint and unadd you for real, or he'll slip up and message first.
Just do your thing and don't give this clown any more of your energy. He ain't worth the headache! You can do better than mess with someone playing games like that.
From my experience, men are rarely really done when they say they are or even when they act like it. They almost always come back at least once. The fact that he added you back and watches your stories is a sign that he’s not mad anymore, but I would leave it at that. It’s possible he’ll comment on a story or reach out to try and test the waters, and if that time comes I hope you don’t take the bait.
It’s super weird and very well could be a coincidence but, he saw my story that I posted last night of a selfie of me and another one of my cat, and then, 2 minutes later I saw his story that said “ready for bed” with a selfie of him. Again could be a coincidence but it’s just weird how he never posted on his story and if he does, it’s very rarely.
He’s probably counting on you to miss him or even become curious about his post and reach out. He doesn’t have the nerve since he told you to leave him alone. I would show restraint and stop watching his stories. It’s just such a cry for attention and he’d have some real asskissing to do before getting a conversation after things ended how they did.
I’ve told him if he doesn’t wanna speak to me or want any contact with me to remove me as a friend and he didn’t say anything, left me on open and keeps on him on his social media. Then asked me, “why do you keep trying to talk to me?” Like WHY DO YOU keep watching my stories? in my personal opinion someone who doesn’t want to speak to someone doesn’t add them back on social media. Then he goes “I thought I wasn’t going to get another time of your day ever again” and then I go “Well, I don’t hate you, hating someone is exhausting” and he goes “OkY yeah I was just wondering” Weird right?
Probably to keep you around to ask for nudes when he wants to or to keep it for an argument latter.
It’s super weird and very well could be a coincidence but, he saw my story that I posted last night of a selfie of me and another one of my cat, and then, 2 minutes later I saw his story that said “ready for bed” with a selfie of him. Again could be a coincidence but it’s just weird how he never posted on his story and if he does, it’s very rarely.
He wanted you to see it make you think of him in bed
I’ve told him if he doesn’t wanna speak to me or want any contact with me to remove me as a friend and he didn’t say anything, left me on open and keeps on him on his social media. Then asked me, “why do you keep trying to talk to me?” Like WHY DO YOU keep watching my stories? in my personal opinion someone who doesn’t want to speak to someone doesn’t add them back on social media. Then he goes “I thought I wasn’t going to get another time of your day ever again” and then I go “Well, I don’t hate you, hating someone is exhausting” and he goes “OkY yeah I was just wondering” Weird right?
Hate when they put it on you like just blocked... But that is me