Am I being petty am I wrong for that?

[Bracefacesummer]

Ok so I don’t speak to the guy I was messing with anymore he wrote me asking me if I had Apple Pay he have an iPhone I don’t get how he don’t have that but I told him to not have nobody send nothing to my phone he asked me one time before and we was cool so I let him but I stopped dealing with him so him writing me asking me knowing I have Apple Pay was just stupid but I still replied and told him to not have no one send nothing to my Apple Pay because we aren’t cool. He said ok but than I notice him calling me on messenger on fb none stop I looked at his message and he said the person sent it to send it to his cash app for him. I got upset told him I’m never speaking to him again I sent it than blocked him on Facebook. Was I wrong? I just feel like that was disrespectful because i found out he was sending other girls money for gas and stuff so him telling me the money is for his cousin son to go to the store I know he’s lying either it’s for him to give to a girl for gas or to catch to go to go see a girl or something. He just a liar so I stopped trusting him and stopped helping him.

[DoggyDude]

I agree, its incredibly disrespectful to go directly against your ask to not have people send you money. It is a sensible ask because you get embroiled in their financial matters and if they have financial problems you immediately get stuck as being involved.

So you where completely right to insist he doesn't. However, I feel that Apple Pay should give you the tools you need to block payments from all but people you specify directly?

I feel your decision to distance yourself from this person seems well reasoned.

[Bracefacesummer]

Ok. Because I thought I was overreacting. He didn’t care and still made the person send it.

[DoggyDude]

I would say, that it could be overreacting if this was a one off indicent. Meaning, if this isn't a pattern of behaviour from him, it would be over reaching to block him completely rather than just getting pissy with him and not speaking to him for a while?

[Bracefacesummer]

Nope this is not the first time he did something similar and I blocked him because he hearted the message of me saying I didn’t like what he did.

[DoggyDude]

Yes, sounds like he painted you into this corner.

[Billlewis]

No, ma'am, you're not wrong at all. I just started following you and I'd like to invite you to follow me as well, if that's alright. Thank you very much.

[Bracefacesummer]

Ok. No problem I’ll follow back.

[Anonymous]

It depends, sweetie. Sometimes getting upset about something small is totally normal, like if someone keeps borrowing your stuff without asking. But if it's making you more stressed than it's worth, it might be better to let it go. Think about how important the issue really is and if there's a way to communicate calmly about it.

[Anonymous]

Nope very valid feelings and huge red flag him not listening best to stay away

[Bracefacesummer]

I blocked him.

[Opinion Owner]

Great take care of yourself