Honestly for me I’m kind of the same. I’ve been at work all day dealing w people. I work in the medical field so we get all kinds of people coming at us. I just want to shower, sit in my room, quiet, eat dinner then maybe watch a show or two. It’s not that I don’t want to be w her or I’m mad at her or whatever she may think. I just want to unwind. Be at peace. In my relationship we’ve been together for 15 years, so she has her time as well as my time. We don’t always have to be connected at the hip. I work for a while, a lot of OT but maybe every few weeks I’ll plan a little 3-4 day trip for us. We devote that time to each other. I may not want to cuddle or something like that after work because maybe physically I’m beat down. Not to mention if you’ve ever worked medical or some physically demanding job, you feel nasty. Sweaty, etc. Plus being in the medical field it isn’t a good thing to hug your family right after work till you’ve showered, changed clothes, etc. Plus as a male in the medical field you’re utilized a lot to do a lot of heavy jobs. Sometimes I may be mad so having someone all over me may set that off to where I may react wrong. Not cause I’m mad at her but just her being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Meaning the next person whether it was her or someone else may set me off. So she lets me be. No I’ve never yelled at her either. I will tell her when I feel like that, just give me some time I’m irritated right now. So she’s ok.
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Gimme like a hr. to decompress. It's not that I don't want to see her or anything. But I've had people all in my face for 8 hrs. I'd just appreciate 1 hr. To switch from work mode to home mode. And then I'm happy to hear about anything she has to say.
yeah i just wanna chill after work and getting all cuddly is the last thing i wanna do bc it feels claustrophobic
like being near other is enough for me and maybe talkin about the show we're watching
I just like a hello and a hug, and I don’t ask him to do anything the first few hours he’s home because I know he’s tired. I’ll make dinner and we’ll have a bath/shower usually
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A kiss, cuddle and a little chat about our day.
Just smile and positive energy
But i never get this 😕This is perfectly reasonable. He comes home and is exhausted both mentally and physically. Let the poor man be.
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