Why when a guy slut shames a woman he physically assaults her?

[Anonymous]

I told a guy I had sex with a guy guys before him because he asked and he did not take the well. He called me disgusting during sex and strangled me during sex. This never happened to me before and I am traumatized because of this. Should I have called the police? Why do some guys act like this? I don’t deserve to be treated this way because I have a lot of sex.

[laly520]

sorry it happened
u have to learn ur lesson, majority of guys don't respect those who sleep around with
for em u r nothing but a cheap girl giving herself away for free, I know the reality might be harsh on u but it is what it is
u can try calling cops on him if u have abuse marks on ur body

[Dongie]

I have a nephew that told me of a scene similar. He said, laughing, left her curled up crying. Obviously in shock. As he told me the story as though it was cool, I felt the blood drain from my face, somewhat shocked as I tried to process what he had said. I looked down and said, "you didn't". His tone changed as he realized how the atmosphere drastically changed. A futile attempt at keeping face, he said he was in a hurry. 19 years ago. I don't see that dude anymore.

[jahaims]

If you do not have self respect you will not be respected by others.

[Asker]

How does having sex considered not having self respect? Everyone has casual sex lol

[jahaims]

Everyone definitely doesn't have casual sex. Just sluts with no self respect. You just lie to yourself to cope so you don't feel like the broken trash that you are.

[LazerBean]

That is not the norm for guys who ask that question. Yes you should have called the police. Maybe in the future be more careful who you have sex with.

[HelpfulWoman]

its a minority who ask that and yes, you should have called the police. assault is never okay

[Anonymous]

Call the cops