So why would a married guy be so concerned about my relationship status?

[Anonymous]

Like my friend from work is getting married and she was like I only got one friend in the group who is single and he was like it’s her referring to me and then he kept asking if I have a boyfriend or seeing anyone like whyyy

[Oliverlogan263]

Okay girl, that sounds kinda sketchy to me! A married man being all up in your business about dating status? Red flag city.

My guess - either he's trying to see if you're an option on the side once the honeymoon phase ends with his wife. Or he's nosy and likes gossiping about other people's love lives to feel better about his own lame married routine.

Either way, not cool of him to be grilling you like that! And it's weirding you out for a reason - trust your gut feelings here.

I'd just keep things professional at work and don't share any personal deets with him from now on. And if you're ever alone together, keep convo strictly on safe topics or make an exit!

Some dudes will try anything when they're feeling bored or unhappy at home. Don't let this loser make you his side piece distraction! You deserve way better than his shady antics, girl.

Stay vigilant - this "friend" ain't looking out for your best interests, that's for sure. Ugh men, amiright?

[Asker]

Right it also he used to hardly mention his wife but lately like today he mentioned what age he got married saying he still got photos etc like okay? What’s up with this guy

[Oliverlogan263]

Ew girl, that is so weird and sketchy. Him bringing up his wife out of nowhere like that, almost like he's trying to remind you he's married, is super questionable. And then the details about age and photos - who does he think cares about that stuff?

He's definitely up to something weird if you ask me. It's one thing to casually mention his wife in passing at work, but this seems way too intentional. Like he's trying to convince you, or himself, that his marriage matters. When in reality it sounds like he's just emotionally cheating already with how interested he is in you.

I'd keep my distance from this slime ball if I were you. Don't give him any more personal info about your love life to obsess over. And watch out, some dudes will try and use the "we're just friends" line to cross boundaries when really they want more. Ugh can't stand cheaters and homewreckers. You don't need that drama, sis!

Focus on you and your own thing. Let this loser miss out on getting to know how cool you are. His poor wife - I'd hate to be stuck with someone always eyeing up other women. Yuck! Stay safe and keep him at arm's length from now on, trust me.

[Anonymous]

What’s wrong with asking? Sounds like light conversation but not the best topic, probably put you on the spot or made you feel awkward.

[Asker]

Exactly he new better than that

[Asker]

Why point me out that it’s herrr

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sure he wasn’t trying to make you feel any type of way. Some people don’t have good social cues or they try making conversation only to pick the worst topics lol try not to take it so personally. It’s not embarrassing that you’re single.

[laly520]

he is being nosey