Do men talk to girls they’re not interested in or attracted to for a long time? How do I know if I’m annoying him?

[Anonymous]

We talk every day for 30 min at a time and 2 or 3 times a day. I'm usually bored and I'll swing by his office to chat because I enjoy him (personality/energy). Once in a while, he’ll visit - mostly to chat or swing by and we’ll walk to a meeting together.

When we chat it's normally about our interests/work. We laugh a lot. He does keep the conversation going and he remembers what I say and listens.

[DoggyDude]

Yes, some men can talk to girls they have no romantic interests in. Though, the frequency maybe suggests they see you as at least a work friend.

So, usually you won't annoy a friendly guy unless your non-stop seeking their attention and/or impeeding their work day. To make sure you don't annoy, all you need to do is reflect your attention to their time and not taking it up overly. Every guy is slightly different though on how much time is 'too much' time.

I'd say, signs to watch our your annoying someone are:

o They become very short in conversation even at initiation.
o It takes a lot to attract their attention
o When responding they restrain themselve souly to work based responses
o They start avoiding you obviously
o Their responses to whatever your say become friendly but mono-sylabic

At the end of the day, its better to not worry about annoying them but concern yourself with how you feel about them and how to let them know so they can factor that into how they are treating you.

[TommyMountainFigure]

'Interested in' and 'attracted to' may or may not be VERY different, and by definition one does not necessarily automatically mean the other.

He is definitely interested in you, so no, I don't think you are boring him, but as for attraction? There is no way of knowing!

[Asker]

Ty for sharing. What's the difference between being interested in and attracted to?

[Asker]

Ah, nvm. I understand the difference. In the context of my question I meant interested as liking another person. You wrote interest in the more general sense like someone can be an interesting person.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Yes exactly!

[boobliker]

most will it ok to talk to any one

[Avicenna]

No, not for a long time

[In_Trance]

No they don't