Does this make him look guilty by not responding?

[Anonymous]

i got a really gross message of someone name calling me and saying i was disgusting and ugly but it was from a no caller id text number so i wasn’t able to answer back. i instantly called my ex and he answered the second time i called him back, i was super aggravated and annoyed so when he answered i Immediately said “hello?” i waited a few seconds for him to respond and said “helloo?” thinking maybe he didn’t hear me and after a few seconds once again i said “hellooooo?” super rude and bitchy like and that’s when he hung up. it was absolute dead silence on his end but i knew he was there listening because the call lasted a good 15-20 seconds before he hung up. he knew in the sound of my voice i was pissed off about something. i tried calling him back and he sent it to voicemail and i called him right back and he blocked me from calling

i then texted him through my email and told him if he was the sending me harassing messages from no caller id to please stop and leave me alone and how he is a liar and all he did in our relationship was treat me like shit. i wasn’t nice about it but also no response.

why did he listen on the phone but no response?
do you think he looks guilty not responding to either the phone call or the texts?

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1 mo

the no caller id message wrote “have it. you weird ugly disgusting ass bitch.” not sure what they meant by “have it.”

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe. Is your ex generally the kind of dick who would do something like that? Is he mad at you for something in particular?

But no, just not responding doesn’t make him guilty. He could just not want to deal with a pissed-off ex.

[Asker]

not sure if he’s mad at me for anything, no. why stay on the phone tho and not respond?

[Asker]

i called him from no caller id and as soon as he heard my voice he should’ve hung up. but instead, he listened to me repeat the same three things over getting more and more angry. every time he didn’t respond. you could clearly tell in my voice i was pissed about something.

[WhitneySnow]

He might not have known what to do and only hung up when you got really pissed. I don’t think you can assume he’s guilty because he listened to you without answering for fifteen seconds.

But seriously. You know the guy. Is he the kind of guy who would send you an anon text saying you were disgusting and ugly? Most of my exes aren’t that much of an asshole (I never would have dated them if they were).

[Asker]

I know he was sleeping because the first time I called he didn’t answer and it went to voicemail

[Asker]

and i mean he might.

[WhitneySnow]

My hunch is it wasn’t him, but I could be wrong.

[Anonymous]

It could be possible he had a female do that if your breakup was bad or he’s bitter, she’s only getting his side after all. Very petty if he was behind that.

[Asker]

lol break up was on his end. long distance and such but we still kept contact until it didn’t end good and we wanted nothing to do with each other although i kept adding him on snapchat and he kept adding me back and whenever i would post something he didn’t like he’d remove me but when i’d add him he’d add me right back.

[Asker]

the message wrote “have it. you weird ugly disgusting ass bitch.” not sure what they meant by “have it.” but.

[Opinion Owner]

That’s so random and disrespectful to tell someone smh. I’m not sure if he’s behind it but in any case I’d block his ass and move on lol he’s too wishy washy anyway.

[Asker]

it’s definitely someone i know because “no caller id” usually means that someone in your contacts saved or their contacts saved.

[Opinion Owner]

Not exactly, didn’t you ever *67 to prank call when you were a kid?

[Opinion Owner]

To be clear, I’m basically saying that all they need is your number but it doesn’t mean they have it saved

[spartan55]

For you to think he would feel guilty about anything is about as hilarious as it gets.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Usually when someone has to go unknown, it's most likely someone you know

[Curiositykilledcat7]

Let him cum on your tits

[Jennz6]

I’m not sure

[Jennz6]

That’s so weird