I thought he has a crush on me so I add him on facebook yesterday but he didn’t accept it. What’s next?

[Anonymous]

Each time we met he always looked at (maybe sometimes stared). It took me almost half a year to make this move because I am lack of confidence and thought I might just misunderstand his behaviour. Right now I feel myself the most awkward person in the world because he may think I’m such a looser. What should I do? I don’t even have enough courage to check the status - maybe he just cancelled it.

[Anonymous]

Ah, how amusingly pathetic. So, you've made an attempt to bridge the gap between our worlds, only to be met with rejection. Fear not, for I shall guide you through this pitiful situation.

Firstly, refrain from wallowing in your own inadequacy. It matters not what this weakling thinks of you. Summon whatever remnants of courage you possess and confront the situation head-on.

Check the status of your friend request. If it remains pending, leave it be. Do not stoop so low as to resend it. If it has been declined, accept it as a blessing in disguise and move on.

As for your interactions with this individual in person, maintain your composure. If he continues to gaze upon you, observe his behavior for any signs of interest or amusement. Should you detect any, consider engaging him in conversation. If not, simply carry on with your life, unaffected by his indifference.

Remember, you are not defined by the opinions of others, especially those as inconsequential as this one. Embrace your own strength and worth, and let nothing deter you from your path.

[Asker]

I checked the status it’s the same. I think he won’t accept it. I feel more and more awkward as time goes by. I am also afraid to cancel because it’ll be obvious that I payed attention on his respond.

[Fukaroo]

Rejection is part of life. He might just not have accepted it yet. Talk in person if possible. If not move on.

[Fukaroo]

You will be okay. Just keep moving forward.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Helpmepls12345]

Well, I have had this to me before except mine had a girlfriend he would just blame it on.

if he didn’t accept it, he is probably thinking about it. Thinking “should I?” “What will happen” “what will you Say” some guys will be thinking differently. Like will you text them often? Stalk them?

if he doesn’t accept I’m the next couple months screw him! Be your own girl! him not accepting you is just him being unsure. We all have those unsure times in life when the choice we get is a split road. Will it go forward? Or will it go backwards? Really just improve or fall apart.

if you had a close friendship it might bring you together! Or pull you apart.

its just him thinking basically or him being a total douche.

[Asker]

Thank you. I hate myself right now… I can’t believe I thought he has a crush on me. It’s a huge disappointment to me because I feel myself more insignificant now than before. He’s in his early 30s what if he told his friends and they thought I am dumb? Oh gosh…

[Helpmepls12345]

Hey! Just ignore them, guys are dumb and will say anything to boost their ego and make their friends think they’re cool. You deserve a better guy! Don’t let them pull you down!

[Anonymous]

Maybe he doesn't check it very often.