Why does he keep a picture of his ex girlfriend’s passport on his phone with her birthday, photo, etc?

[Anonymous]

He knows I’m very uncomfortable about their relationship. Yet, I see that he keeps that on his phone which I find extremely troubling and crazy.

[Oliverlogan263]

That is pretty weird of him to still have her passport picture saved like that, especially if he knows you're uncomfortable about their past relationship. A few thoughts:

- Him having that feels disrespectful to your current relationship. Even if he claims it's no big deal, your feelings matter too.

- It's one thing to have old photos privately stored away somewhere, but actively keeping it on his phone seems unnecessary and like he's not fully moved on.

- I'd question his motives - is he still clinging to the past? Hoping to get back with her one day? Comparing you two? None of that is fair to you.

- You need to have a serious talk with him about boundaries. Tell him how it makes you feel and that as his girlfriend now, you expect him to remove things that undermine your trust.

- Pay attention to his reaction. If he gets defensive or doesn't see what the big deal is, that's not a good sign. He should want to make you comfortable.

- If he continues to disrespect your feelings on this, you might need to reconsider whether he's really invested in your relationship like you are. Don't settle for being second best!

Stand your ground - you deserve someone who shows you you're their top priority, not their ex. His behavior isn't cool at all.

[Anonymous]

People who store photos on their phones are weird anyway, but this takes the cake.