I wish I could get a refund for time wasted…I have come across men that don’t be upfront about their intentions. If a friend is what you are looking for, just say that.. don’t wait until I get very interested in you to tell that you just want a friend. I could’ve been your friend from the start, and treated you like a friend.. I don’t really talk to my friends every day…maybe twice a week to twice a month.. we all busy.
Well you're looking at things all wrong before you can become anything you have to become friends.
If you're looking for a date or two before you jump in the sack. Then I guess your way is the best.
But most guys are going to tell you I'm just looking for a friend they didn't say what level of friend they're looking for..
But no matter what guy you go out with in this world you have to be friends first let it work into something let them prove it to you that they want more you're the boss not them..
But you need to want to become friends too with a person. .
Not unless you're just going off of looks but it might take a few minutes to get to know the person on the inside so use it to your advantage when they say they're just looking for a friend..
Hell even I'm looking for a good friend.
And that good friend those words mean so much it's unreal.
I said looking for a good friend I didn't say a fuck buddy I didn't say friends with benefit.
With me no matter who I go out with I have to become their friend first we both have to be friends before it will go anywhere
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Sounds like you got friend zoned... Not too common for ladies
Guys don't just walk up to a woman to be friends with her. They are generally very goal oriented and will always want something very practical from a person they approach. Maybe it's your homework, maybe it's your popularity, maybe it's love/sex/etc. etc. etc. There's always a purpose. There's no "Hey you seem interesting, let's go for a coffee." that doesn't end up with him asking for something later on.
Then as they see that you're not a good match for them it's possible that, to be polite, they suggest being friends, which is to say that you have some purpose in their life, but it's not as their main girl.
If a guy tells you that directly after using him for sex, do not accept friendship, just walk away. He was using you for sex and may do it again, which is bad for you.
I dont understand the problem and I dont understand why you feel entitled.
People are allowed to change their minds anytime they see fit.
You can't expect someone to keep dating you if they don't feel it.
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If they were up front they wouldn't get what they want, which is in your pants. That's why you make them work for it or accept they will just use you because they can. That is men in general, that is why I don't meet men in person because they are gonna try to lead it to sex. They are all the same don't expect them to be stand up guys. I suggest not using dating apps if you looking for something serious.
Some people just changed their minds when they’re not interested anymore. I do this as well when I think they’re better as a friend and not more, so I use the friendship card lol.
Tell me about it. I could say the same thing about women.
it's always about sex with guys
Yea that’s lame of them
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