Guys, What does it mean when he says “he hates relationship”?

[Anonymous]

So i met this guy on a dating app and i find him really attractive. We used to talk all the time for the two months and we saw each other like two three times and we made out and then he stopped saying I’m going through a lot and then after four months he texted me again and i didn’t reply just liked his message coz i wanted him to know lol anyways he sends me a snap after a month as well and i was being really casual and said “hope he is enjoying his space” then he replied “yea but i gotta do it alone” and i was like “i thought you had someone already” then this man had the audacity to say “actually i hate relationships i don’t like being told what to do” “i can do anything anywhere my way” i was like where did that come from? please some one explain what did i do wrong that made him say “i hate relationships” we never said we were in one we were just talking and after everything he said that!!

[Finchie40]

It means he is selfish and only really cares about himself , he is’t relationship material , he pretty much wants his cake and wants to eat it to , you are best to move on from him , if you are seeking a committed loving relationship. He isn’t the guy for you period , He just likes the convenience of you , because you are not his priority , never be a convenience to anyone , especially if you want a serious relationship with someone. Someone that wants you by their side will make you their priority the same way they hope you make them your priority

[TommyMountainFigure]

Let me see if I have this correct.
He stopped talking to you after 2 months, complaining he was going through a lot. When he text you after another 2 months, you never replied and he got arsey about it?
What was he expecting? A firework display or a 104 piece band fanfare to celebrate he was interested in you again?
Stop beating yourself up over it. This is all on him, not you. You've done nothing wrong!

[Iron_Man]

If he hates relationships, why is he on a dating app?

[exitseven]

Ding ding ding

[Iron_Man]

@exitseven yes ding dong

[Asker]

That’s what i wanan know why are some guys on the app if they don’t want a relationship

[Iron_Man]

He’s just making excuses. He’s not smart enough to realize he got caught.

[ProbablyClueless]

Where that came from is that he's telling you off. He's saying that you're nothing more than entertainment to him. He doesn't want to give you the slightest hope of having any connection with him because it's not going happen.

[spartan55]

Because you assumed he was with someone when he wasn't. Guys don't like that.

[slatyb]

It means you shouldn't waste your time on him if you want a relationship partner.

[IWILLPLEASEYOU]

I have to guess it maybe means that he's been trying to get laid?

[Anonymous]

Neither did he. I think you totally misread that.😆

[In_Trance]

How is that not clear