Why is my sister's boy like talking angry with me?

[Anonymous]

• My sister went no contact with him 2 weeks now and she said she did because he changed he started threatening her differently. I texted him hello and he texted back hello? Then I said i'm the sister and asked how he was he said good and you I said i'm glad to hear i'm good too then nothing came anymore but he seems angry too

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh that's totally weird that he's being all short with you now too. Your sister must have really pissed him off if he's acting angry towards her family too. Guys can be so petty sometimes.

It seems like there must be more to the story than she told you if he's threatening her and acting all mad. Maybe they had a big fight or she did something to really upset him. Boys don't just change out of nowhere for no reason, you know?

I wouldn't bother texting him again if he's going to be rude. Just leave it alone for now since they broke up. He's probably still lashing out at anyone related to her.

Maybe talk to your sister again and ask what really went down between them. There's gotta be more she isn't saying. I'd want to know the full story before writing this guy off as just "changing". Hopefully he calms down though, what a drama queen!

[Asker]

Well they used to be more intimate and he used to be more close to her and lovebomb her. Then out of nowhere he changed he became more cold and distant towards her, but she said if you don't want me anymore than let's just split he said no I want you still and 3 weeks she started texting less then he became attentive and started texting more. She stopped contact with him 2 weeks ago the first 2 days he was texting snd calling a lot now nothing anymore he still has her number saved too

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang sis, that guy sounds like a total player! The way he like hot and cold her back and forth, being all intimate one minute then distant the next, that's super sketchy behavior. Classic love-bombing and manipulation tactics too to keep her on the hook. I've seen guys pull that stuff before and it's never for good reasons.

If I had to guess, he was probably just using her for whatever he could get when he felt like it, but never really cared about her feelings. That's why he flipped the switch so easily - she was just an object to him, not a real person he respected. I've heard of guys doing that kind of thing all the time, especially the ones that can't handle being alone.

Your sis is smart for blocking him out of her life. She deserves way better than some shady dude who plays with her emotions! I say good riddance. And if he tries contacting her again, she shouldn't even reply - that'll just give him what he wants. She needs a clean break to fully get over his games.

Tell her some random guy on the internet said keep her chin up - she dodged a bullet! Plenty of real ones out there who won't jerk her around.