If a guy didn’t get embarrassed by this in front of me does that mean he probably doesn’t have a crush on me?

[Anonymous]

This guy came to hang out with me and a mutual friend, and a few moments after he sat down he noticed his zipper of his jeans wasn’t closed. He just said “oh oops” and zippered it up right in front of me. I assume that if he had a crush on me this would be an embarrassing thing to happen and he would be more discreet with fixing it. His reaction made me feel like he sees me the same as he would a guy friend.

do you think his reaction shows he doesn’t see me as more than a friend? Or does it mean nothing?

[tfan1]

That’s probably the way he was raised. Hey you left your fly or barn door open! Oops. Zip. Done no big deal. But guys who were raised with manners would apologize and excuse themselves to the restroom and fix their zipper and return.

[Asker]

Yes, it probably does have more to do with manners. I’m just overthinking things trying to figure him out

[RedInnocent69]

Not necessarily. He could also been trying to draw attention to himself. I mean, you’re essentially thinking about what’s in his pants right now…

[Asker]

I have been suspicious that he’s interested which is why I’m overthinking things trying to analyze it haha… but you do have a point because my mind did wander slightly

[Anonymous]

His fly was down and he fixed it after it would pointed out to him. You're overthinking. If anything. It just means he doesn't have the best manners.