Girls, what is something guys shouldn’t feel insecure about?

[Still-alive]

Im sure you noticed a lot of dudes on here feeling insecure about things. A lot of which stems from not feeling attractive to women in some way. But what are things guys really don’t have to feel insecure about. Could be physical or mental. Anything

[Cute_Miss_Laura]

The one thing that really jumped to mind for me was “Penis Size”!

The average size for a penis in the western world is just about 5 ½ inches! It is shocking to me how many guys with average or slightly above average sized penises obsess about their dick not being over 6 inches!
As long as a guy doesn't have a micropenis, (which is an adult with a penis measuring less that 3.7 inches when mildly stretched.), then he really needs to stop complaining that his penis is "too small”! One of my ex-boyfriend had a penis that was maybe 4 inches in size, and yet I had more orgasms through vaginal sex alone, with him than I do with even my fiancé who is above average in size, and w/ him it can hurt if he thrusts too deeply or too hard! Guys really need to stop worrying about the size of their dicks! First, no woman who loves you is gonna leave you because of the size of your penis! Second, we only have sexual sensory nerve endings in the 1st inch and a half to two inches of our vaginas, the remainder is only pain sensory nerves. In other words, as long as it's over 2" inches long it will give us sexual pleasure, but if it's too long, it will cause pain! All but one of my friends would much rather have a guy with a smaller penis than one that was too big (seriously, that shit really hurts!), but as beautiful as she is, and as much as I love her (dearly) she's been with so many guys, because they had a reputation for having a very big dick… At this point sex with her for an average sized man would probably be pretty much like tossing a hotdog down the Lincoln tunnel! (Mersey tunnel for people in England)!
*Note to self:* Don't eat any more hotdogs until you get that image out of your mind,

I really hope this helps.
Sincerely, Laura. 🥰 🤗

[SueShe]

What a refreshing take. I have given up answering that penis size question because it is like hitting a wall. As long as some men think that size does matter, it is a lost battle.

[Cute_Miss_Laura]

@SueShe OMG, that is such an excellent observation! Unfortunately I don’t think guys will ever get it, and the battle is already lost! Seriously, I’m so sick and tired of answering DM’s that begin “can I ask you a question” and when I tell them THAT was a question, but sure go ahead and ask me another question, I get “Well, my penis is x inches long, with a girth of y inches… is that big enough?” I've just started telling them "big enough for who? I'm sure it's big enough for most, not big enough for some, and too big for others. My personal opinion is irrelevant since you're never going to be having sex with me, so why would you care what I think?” I honestly think it’s the digital version of “Flashing”! They just wanna get their thrills from describing their dick to a woman who has no interest in seeing it, or reading about it!

Guys just do not get that men and women are different, we think differently, we feel differently, and we have different priorities when it comes to choosing a partner. I just don't understand why no matter how many times we tell them that for us, sex is emotional, it's a physical connection with the man we love. They just don not get it! Our body releases massive amounts of oxytocin during sex, which literally makes us bond with the man we're having sex with! When women start acting like men and engage in one casual sexual encounter after the next, they start to lose the ability to bond with a man through sex! This can be catastrophic to the woman later in life, when she does FINALLY decide to settle down, because that "next level” bonding will never happen for her once she gets married!

No matter how many times I write on here "no woman who truly loves you will ever care what size your dick is” guys will immediately DM me and ask me if THEIR dick is too big or too small! 🤦‍♀️ it's like, my God they just DO NOT get it! 🙄

Thanks for your input, Sue. I REALLY appreciate you.
Lots of love, and mad respect, Laura 🤗 🥰

[noemiii]

Being short comes to mind. Yeah, short men have issues dating, but they can 100% still get a girlfriend if they put in an effort into themselves. Yes, women have height preferences, just like men have body preferences. But all women don’t and I see plenty of shorter men with girlfriends.

[msmissydc]

On this app with the amount of questions about there can only be one answer.
That being implied before the need to say it lets continue.
Aproaching women: as long as you can accept a 'no' as a 'no!' and you dont ignore personal boundaries its fine. My issue is never with guys who are respectful in the approach of aproaching.
Otherwise not sure what general insecurity of guys are.

[IslaTheWitch]

they shouldn't simply feel insecure at all...

being yourself is the best way of being

[Still-alive]

Ehh but thats like saying people shouldn’t judge. It’s not good usually but its not gonna stop people from feeling/doing it anyways

[valentina4eva]

approaching girls
penis size
height
all super common topics i see here😮😮

[Still-alive]

Are you super nice when guys approach you?

[valentina4eva]

if they are respectful and the time/place is right, i think so!!😅😅

[Still-alive]

Well at the very least i hope you can understand why guys might feel a bit nervous doing that lol.

[Still-alive]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LoW0jIk48O4

this scene from this old but cool movie is like every shy guys fear realized about approaching women lol.

[valentina4eva]

omg that was hard to watch!!😬😬

[valentina4eva]

i would nvr be that rude😵😵 i just try and make excuses indirectly😵‍💫

[Still-alive]

he gets revenge on her later lol. its about this potion that makes every member of the opposite sex fall for you. he uses it on here and she starts rubbing up on him and then he rejects her just like she did here lol.

god movie you should watch it. Sandra bullock also stars. one of her earliest roles.

[DishLady]

There’s a lot they shouldn’t feel insecure about but just do… it’s not possible to require the guy, so you just assess what makes him anxious and work around it to avoid making him anxious.

[menina]

They shouldn't feel insecure about their height. There are women who don't care about height at all. Being tall doesn't make a man superior or more attractive.

[Caroline91]

Approaching me if they want to talk to me. Just be prepared for the possibility that I’m not available, but I will most likely smile and chat a bit if you are polite and respectful.

[LaurenM1997]

How they look 🥺

[Ms_Facesitter]

Their dicks.

Being under 6 ft.

[electromagnetic]

Balding.