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He says he is one.
He was an old crush of mine who would follow me everywhere anytime and didn’t care what others said. It didn’t work and we moved cities. Only to connect later.
On one hand I often see him extremely protective of me and very possessive when I talk to other boys. He got hurt by the fact that I had sex with someone nd cut off all ties.
On the other, he makes plans and doesn’t turn up. He is pretty rude and doesn’t respect me but when talking about me to others he seems to candy coat and make me look like a princess. He seems go with the flow attitude but gets intensely possessive to the point he never lets a man talk to me or even fight with them or get upset when my phone is engaged at nights.
After cutting ties, I have seen him occasionally checking me, looking at my face for long time, and not speak a word. I have also seen him stalking my LinkedIn while unfollowing me from Instagram. And the occasional following on Snapchat but long silences.
I weirdly recall him saying ‘your body belongs to me only’ and trashing my boyfriend calling him ugly.
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Girl, this dude gives me playboy AND narc vibes. Like major red flags all over the place.
The possessive, controlling behavior is classic narc - he wants you all to himself but doesn't actually treat you right. Getting mad about your past or other guys is just a way to manipulate you.
But then the hot/cold actions like flaking and ignoring you for a while shows serious player tendencies too. Checking your socials is just to keep tabs on you as an option.
Saying creepy stuff about owning your body? Yikes, that's not okay at all. And putting down your ex is an immature tactic to undermine your choices.
You gotta drop this loser, sis! No good will come from getting tangled up with someone with narcissism AND player issues. You don't need that toxic dysfunction in your life, you're way too cool.
Move on for good, block him everywhere. Let him stalk your happy life from afar while you flourish without his BS weighing you down. You deserve so much better!
He makes plans and doesn't turn up.
DUMP.
I did.
Excellent.
Yeah.