Does this guy hate me? Would it be very bad if my friend reached out to him?

[Anonymous]

I know that in this case I overreacted and it is my fault. Reason for posting this in GAG is me are usually ruthless here and would appreciate a sincere opinion on what happened...

We met on Hinge and wealked for a month. I wasn't feeling well so couldn't meet him.

Then a week ago he sent a shirtless selfie of himself. This signalled to me that he's only after sex. I asked him and he seemed very apologetic.

But I kept pestering so in the end he blocked me.

I know why but I'm confused on whether he thought I don't find him attractive... Yes, he thought it is enough but why block instead of telling someone straight this isn't going to work?

My friend suggested reaching out to him to let him know that I didn't mean anything wrong.

Not sure if this will mean I'm invading his space and how he would react...

Last conversation below...

[Anonymous]

It’s slim pickings on the dating apps I’m guessing. Don’t circle back to that, the door is shut. You’re not desperate, at least I would hope not.

[Anonymous]

Uhhhh move on. You're inexperienced. Take this as a lesson tho

[Asker]

What do you mean by inexperienced?

[Theodoricus]

Sorry ma'am, but I stopped scrolling. Good luck!

[spartan55]

I can see why he blocked you.

[spartan55]

Good lord, don't use a go between. Ugh...

[spartan55]

He didn't think you found him unattractive. He just found you to be a king sized pain in the ass.

[Asker]

I only described one conversation that we had.
We had loads of great banter.

I had guys trying to use me more times than I can remember. So called "nice guys" so yes I reacted to protect myself.
I used to model and seen men out on masks more than I can remember or using manipulation tactics.

By this time he has unlocked me and reblocked me several times now.
I know because whenever I go into my messages to reply to my friend his pictures keeps disappearing and reappearing every 7 days or so.

I never block people unless they stalk me or mean harm.
Today I added this guy to the list.

Honestly had enough of the games men are playing... Just say - it's over. Don't stalk my social media by repeatedly unblocking me, that's just f*** up.