Some men can be super ungrateful. When they want forgiveness they beg and plead for it, but once you’ve made them upset about something they’ve done they use that as a catalyst to exit the relationship. Stay in a relationship physically there but emotionally checked out and wait till they’re over it YEAR later to say how they really feel. I helped that motherfucker get through a huge financial burden. We had just started dating about a month or two when he suddenly lost his job. He was the brokest of the broke like not even a penny to his name. I helped him apply for jobs, I found multiple resources for him that eventually pulled him out of financial burden. What woman is staying to deal with shit like that? He couldn’t even write me a card on my birthday. I thought he was my soulmate because we had so much in common and I kept him around. He got a job back on his feet and the relationship was pulled to the side. I was pregnant by him and miscarried going through so much emotional highs and lows. He was physically there but was already checked out months in. His sudden change in behavior? He felt he had to be my doctor, therapist, and other roles I NEVER EVER once asked him to fulfill EVER. I confided in him because he was my partner. He waited a YEAR in to state he needed space to listen to music and play his video games? Caught him talking and texting to some beyond ghetto whore and he said women aren’t his vice he’s just stressed. Agreed to give him space and the mf ghosted me to break up smh some men are so horrible. I’m already moving on but I just had to get this off my chest. Why are so men so ungrateful or even think of working things out with someone whose done good for them?
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Some men can act really unfair when they’re going through their own personal issues and stresses. It seems like in this situation, your ex really took you for granted after you helped him so much during a difficult time. A few things that might explain his behavior:
- Immaturity - Some guys can't handle serious relationships or responsibilities when they're still trying to figure themselves out. Walking away is easier than dealing with problems.
- Selfishness - Once he got back on his feet financially, he may have felt like he didn't "need" you anymore and dropped the caring act. Not thinking how it would hurt you.
- Emotional unavailability - He wasn't able to be emotionally present/invested like a real partner should during tough times you went through together.
- Unresolved past issues - Something from his past could make it hard for him to fully trust or commit long-term, even if he likes the girl.
It's not your fault at all - you did everything right by being so supportive. Some dudes just aren't ready to reciprocate that kind of care. You're better off without all that drama and stress! Keep your head up, his loss. Keep surrounding yourself with people who appreciate you for who you are.
Men are people and some people are assholes.