Hey y‘all,
I have met this guy through a seminar from my Uni about 6 weeks ago.
Long story short, I kinda developed a crush on him after the seminar. He was nice and really funny and we got along well in the seminar. We sat next to each other; worked in a group project together and he jokingly teased me at times (I posted A FEW questions about him before, so you can check them for more details😅)
I also found his Instagram account through stalking. I sent him some requests with fake accounts but he didn’t accept any of them lol. I didn’t want to send a request with my real account because we don’t even have any mutual followers. I was kinda overthinking that he‘d ask me how I found his account.
After the seminar, I was hoping to bump on him on campus. But I didn’t see him even one single time, even though I saw his friends quite a lot around campus.
Yesterday I saw that he removed our university‘s city from his bio so I guess he‘s a senior and is graduating this summer. I was so sad about this yesterday lol.
Until I saw him in the mall today after 6 1/2 weeks!!! He was there with his friend and I followed them secretly. They were in a shop so I went in there too and acted like I didn’t see him at first. Then when I got in line, he was walking through the shop and saw me and he said "What’s up". We shortly talked about our exams, he was on his way to an exam. When his friend came back, he went back to him and then when they left the shop my crush said "Take care and good luck for the exams".
Soo the good thing is that he talked to me and didn’t ignore me (I mean he could just act like he didn’t see me) The bad thing is that he didn’t seem in a good mood (he was super nice and open in the seminar). I kinda figured that he most probably doesn’t like me more than a friend/in a friendly way only.
I still want to follow him on IG tho but we still don’t have any mutual followers. I don’t know what to do. What do y’all think about our interaction today?
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Look. Tell him you’re into him. Don’t be weird yeah most people see weird anonymous accounts and ir sort of freaks people out. Like who is this?
Stop waiting around or you’re gonna loose him. Also looking at a public account isn’t stalking but it is weird to be sending fake accounts. Just tell him you like him and see if he will grab coffee.
If you know he’s moving then you know your window of opportunity is closing quickly.
Wait for him in the cafeteria tomorrow and sit down next to him.
I think he only likes me as a friend though…
Well, it sounds like you're really interested in him, so maybe you should find out once and for all.
Hmm you’re right lol. If I see him next time, what should I talk about with him? I can’t ask him out or something, I‘m waaay to shy for that. Can I show my interest without asking him out?
Ask him about what he's been doing, how his classes are going, etc. When it's time to leave, you'll know if he's interested in you, based on his mannerisms, etc.
Based on his mannerisms? How do you mean that? To be honest, I was thinking about talking to him about other topics maybe, what do you think?
Why do you have to have mutual followers?
Because people usually don’t find Instagram accounts by accident. On the other hand if you have mutual followers, there’s a chance that their account will be suggested to you.
If I follow him and he ask me „How did you find my account?“ I can’t even find a reason…
All that deception, and runaround just for a social media follow... so stupid.
So why would he have followed you on your fake accounts?