If a guy comes back after years, is he coming back with good intentions?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

That’s for you to be the judge of but in most cases the guy hasn’t changed.

[Asker]

How can I tell if he hasn't changed?

[moneymagnet24]

You have to go back in past to see why he leave you... need more details maam.

[Asker]

It was over an argument we had because he felt I was stringing him along and playing games

[Malwi93]

So it was in fact your fault

[Asker]

No. I wanted to be just friends and he wanted more

[Emanon25]

Could be, just take it easy and make sure he isn’t playing around.

[Asker]

How can I honestly tell because he could be putting on a facade?

[Emanon25]

Talk to him for a while as for now

[Asker]

Okay he reached out to me and asked to grab coffee. I didn't respond because I wasn't sure

[Emanon25]

You can dm now if you want

[Asker]

Him?

[Emanon25]

Me, follow me

[Anonymous]

You can't tell off of that alone. What you got to ask yourself is why he left in the first place. That will give you your answer.

[spartan55]

Is sex a good intention?

[Asker]

Never had sex with him. If he is waiting years just for sex and hasn't moved on there is a bigger issue.

[Evamee]

Maybe and more mature

[Anonymous]

Maybe. It depends on the situation.

[noohair]

There is no way to tell.