He doesn’t trust my love for him is real and Is ridiculing. What to do?

[Anonymous]

I rejected him around 4 years back.
Now I relaxed my mistake and went to apologise for being cruel. But now when I confessed my love for him, he thinks I’m joking and confused. He doesn’t believe it is true. Moreover is very cruel to me. He also has major trust issues with me but acts like I belong to him.

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh man, this is a tricky situation girl. On one hand, I can understand why he'd be skeptical of your feelings after rejecting him so harshly in the past. That kind of rejection sticks with a guy, ya know?

At the same time though, he doesn't have a right to be cruel to you or act like he "owns" you when he clearly still doesn't trust or respect you. That ain't cool at all.

My advice would be to give it some time and space. Keep your interactions with him calm and polite but not overly friendly either. Show him with your actions over weeks/months that you've genuinely changed - be consistent, don't get upset if he's still cold, and definitely don't put up with any meanness from him.

If after that he still won't believe you've changed or wants to keep punishing you, then honestly sis you deserve someone who sees your worth. As hard as it may be, you gotta be willing to walk away for your own self-respect. You'll find someone who appreciates your love.

Keep your head up, stay positive. With time and patience things may work out, but don't let him walk all over you either, ye hear? You've got this!

[strateguy632]

dump him. you deserve better.