Do men regret not asking you out earlier and ask you out again after some time?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

A few months ago, I had my injury newly healed as I went to a designer’s show with my friend and my friend told me she noticed the designer liked me as he offered me the clothes designed by him and also mentioned how he’d like to meet me again. He also took me photos and sent me later on and told me he’d like to share my photos to advertise his product. Which I found flattering because he has very sexy models advertising his products.

After a few months, he’s asking me out for an exhibition and drinks after an exhibition…

How come he still remembers me and why take so long to catch up?

[Finchie40]

Well he definitely finds you beautiful and attractive , but the fact that he waited a couple months to ask you out, is probably because he was involved with someone else , or pursuing someone else at that time , since things didn’t work out with that other girl or girls’ , so now he decided to give you a shot next and see if you are interested in him. Just be careful with that because he might be just trying to get In your pants as well. I can’t speak for all guys’ but when a guy really likes a girl , he makes her his top priority , and invests a lot of his time into her , and wants to see her as much as possible , when a guy doesn’t invest that much time into aGirl , he just likes the convenience of her and wants to see her on his time instead. So be careful with that when it comes to guys’ if you want a relationship that is. So if you want to more than likely be a convenience? Go for that guy

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am not interested in pursuing anything with him, just curious what took him so long

[Finchie40]

My guess is , he was weighing his options

[imtiaz45]

Yes, some men may regret not asking someone out earlier and may revisit the idea after some time. Regret can stem from realizing they missed an opportunity or from changes in their feelings or circumstances. Time can offer new perspectives, and they might recognize qualities in the person that they didn’t fully appreciate before. Additionally, if they see the person thriving or their feelings grow stronger, they might decide to take a chance. However, whether they act on that regret and ask the person out later depends on their confidence, the current dynamics, and whether they believe the opportunity still exists.

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[DishLady]

Some do. But I’d the guy is from my past and we didn’t hit it off then, I don’t usually entertain something with them in the present.

[spartan55]

How come he still remembers you? He spent hours shooting photos of you, how would he NOT remember you? I thought you and Mr Babygirl were exclusive?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He hasn’t asked for me to be his girlfriend yet… So, while I do have exclusive feelings for him, and we do technically act like a couple and we are talking daily and he has been very attentive and sweet to me, I am trying not to act as if we are together. I don’t want to be disappointed and will keep on having my social life as a single woman until he tells me that he wants us to be exclusive, I have turned down so many dates this month, and don’t regret it, but I don’t want to get too invested, until I know that he wants the same.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I don’t mind him taking a time, after all, my username says LaFemmeFatale because I had commitment issues in the past and maybe still do. So, he can take his sweet time too… I am in no rush.

[spartan55]

Well, you are definitely playing it safe going the long distance route.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yep, there’s a reason I am single. It’s been 2 years since break up, I am not unlucky in love, I’ve dated wonderful men and I can’t blame them for me being single, something could work out with a bunch of them… But I wasn’t that interested… Which maybe means I do still have a slight commitment phobia… Going long distance route is better for me, I get to get used to a person and get attached to him without the worry of it taking me too far somewhere - And it keeps me wanting more, it doesn’t bore me like the men I meet in real life, It doesn’t scare me either… It does a little, but all in all I’m probably really playing it safe. I hope something can work out from this though.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Because I do genuinely have feelings for him and I’ve never felt this way about anyone other than my ex.

[AviatorTom]

Men never regret, that emotion is not in our genes. We men learn from the past and move on.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yeah, but why ask me out after a few months from our initial encounter?

[AviatorTom]

@lafemmefatale_1 That's not from regret, that's him learning that he should have asked you out a long time ago.

[ProbablyClueless]

I'm sure it happens sometimes. I wouldn't do that though. If I don't ask a woman out, it's because the timing is wrong.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I don't know cause I'm not shy if I see someone I'm attracted to and could see myself dating I'd shoot my shot I never understood how people could be afraid to talk to people

[just_a_potato]

Uh... I don't know!!

[NathanDavis]

almost...

[justabuddy]

I have done that... but I'm get over it.

[Anonymous]

He wants to get you into bed. That's it's.

[Amur8711]

Yes!