Why do some pretty women get special treatment and free things while others don’t?

Question

Why do some pretty women get special treatment like free food/drinks, free oil changes, immediate entrance into clubs, etc while others only get attention not special treatment. I'm a woman who gets approached oftens and lots of attention when I go out. I have been told many times by women who I might find more average or less attractive than me that they get free oil changes, free services/drinks, favors, easy or free access places while I only get excessively hit on by men I’m disinterested in not anything free or real special treatment like they get. What’s the difference?

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Some do it because they want sex, other times people judge based off personal appearance. Someone can be a mean nasty person inside but take care of themselves on the outside. Then become I guess “Karen’s” when they get older because they can’t get away with it, at least not as much anymore.

I do my best to treat everyone with respect unless someone gives me a reason not to. All in all. Just say thank you and be appreciative of people who do nice things. If you don’t want a favor just say “thank you but I’m good”.

I do also agree that being friendly can go a long ways. People who aren’t friendly or thankful many times won’t receive the same treatment again.

Aakash_Hangargi · Accepted Answer

It's not about being pretty by yourself , it's about the men who see you and whose offering.
Men are choosing to provide those things their may or may not be a reason why men choose to do it.

I feel this is a weird question wanting to be rewarded by strangers free stuff based on looks better to ask like how to earn those things where it wouldn't matter how much you pay the work gets done faster.

I am not saying such things don't exist but it's not in your hands.

What's in your hand is to earn and then burn focus on that as the previleges are going to be temporary even for them.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

I don't think it's so much about being pretty but about being friendly. I do get quite a bit of extra attention from fellows in my circle and not because I'm some kind of 10/10 super model type. I just smile and chat and make the other person feel comfortable -- and I'm genuinely comfortable with them as well. I don't stand around expecting anything for free to fall in my lap, but if they're reliably skilled at something and offer me their expertise, I'm always grateful!

avery58 · Accepted Answer

The people giving them those things are probably doing so to impress them because they thinks she's easy

hahahmm · Answer

Those women getting things are probably flirting and you don't. Also only a certain type of guy even gives free stuff to women and it's because he expects something in return. Exception being if he's very old fashioned type and you're on a date then he might not expect anything BUT if he's not old fashioned he does. Some women have outright said on here they will do X for a free meal. Ha. Practically begging for something in here. Sad.

Anyhow, don't worry about it. Not all women are the same nor should they be... because you might be one of the ones a guy actually considers higher value than the ones who get free stuff. Its like fast food. Just because there's long lines at the fast food joint doesn't mean it's the best food or the most valued food.

MrOracle · Answer

Oh, that's easy.

Those other women are either FAR more willing to trade sex (or some sexual stuff) for favors, or at least they are far more willing to pretend that they will (aka lead guys on).

Make no mistake - the special treatment isn't just because those women are pretty - it's because they are pretty AND they seem willing to make themselves available in return for free drinks, free meals, VIP access, or whatever else. Beauty by itself is of limited value.

And you clearly are NOT willing to do that, and I'm sure you carry yourself in such a way that you vibe tells people that you aren't that kind of girl. But you usually won't get the benefits if you aren't willing to return the value.

Many women are MORE than happy to trade value for value, even if they don't admit it when telling the story later.

blueonblack22 · Answer

A better question is why do so many western women (pretty or not) still expect hand outs and at the same preach about “gender equality”.

Sure you can blame the guys who do this. But women have a integral role of feeling entitled to this as well. Some outright demand it.

Anyway you are a disgusting hypocrite if you expect a rich guy to spoil but at the same time vote democrat or worse push feminism and “gender equity”.

Not saying all women are like this but too many are.

Vegasrunner · Answer

Great question. This is something you will have to learn as you mature in this world. A woman's value is I'm her beauty. The younger and more beautiful she is, the higher her value. However beauty has a range most women are about a 5, as most people are average. Being a 5 is enough to get you attention from men, as men seek volume when it comes to women. However to receive the special treatment you have to have more beauty. A random guy not getting you a free oil change unless you have extreme beauty. Women inherently believe that they posses special treatment beauty, because the world gives them average beauty things.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

The difference is you only hear their story when they get something free and they tell you because it’s rare. If they always got free things they wouldn’t tell you

rachel776 · Answer

i think all pretty girls get a lot of attention from guys, though i got 3 years of free oil changes when i bought my car.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I think it boils down to whether that individual woman is the kind of person to beg. Some people are just extremely comfortable begging all the time. There's no shame associated with it for them.

Anonymous · Answer

Easy attractive women have it easy on life. If she’s sociable and easily coerced by monetary or material possessions she will get what she wants.
Attractive women with standards are ostracized and demonized. Ones that don’t settle for stuff just because it’s expensive are usually hated by men who have nothing to offer women but material possessions. They do end up winning in the end because these types of women are preferred by wealthy men.

Sharkstealth · Answer

Well recently i introduced myself to a girl and she said "nice to meet you". I told her that her smile could brighten the world and said "thank you". As i was going home i was approached and threatened that a bunch of guys would fuck me up if i ever came back there.

Being not so attractive seems to be much better for a girl than a guy.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

1. Maybe you are hanging with the wrong crowd. 2. Are you sure you want all that "free" stuff? I'd guess that many guys would have "sexpectations" if they are giving you free favors.

The_Confusion · Answer

Below-average-looking and poor bitches getting free things? It's called feeding the poor. Most of us have helped the poor or unfortunate at least once without expecting shit in return.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

No one is ''entitled'' for ''special treatment''. When it's given, then voluntarily, and based on my own discretion. I don't even need to justify it. Life is unfair. So what :D

RavVid · Answer

It is not all physical looks. It can be personality but more likely the nature of those women that get them special treatment. They are in fact giving something to men

ohmyguy · Answer

Cause they likely are willing to go next level.. their ready for what evers clever... guy like girls who cut through bullshit... by taking charge we see it as a positive effect in our atmosphere... win win

ManInChains · Answer

Pretty privilege. Something women claim they don’t have because they prefer to be considered oppressed

Anonymous · Answer

Because they’re pretty. Either the men are just trying to nail her or trying to get a potential relationship w her. Some of those idiots are just in the friend zone who will never have a chance w her.

_Senorita_ · Answer

Cuz they don't say no... They are cheap... They smile at strangers... They allow others to do everything

FreyaRed · Answer

Because every horny mofo wants into your panties. It's not because they really like you.

BetaBucks · Answer

Attitude. The sweet and helpless-seeming girls attract a lot of simp favors.

elizamichale1 · Answer

Well coz they r pretty honey n they can look more hotter

Anonymous · Answer

I’m not sure. I’m reasonably pretty and every once in a while someone, usually a guy, offers to do something for me or give me free stuff. But be careful. There’s usually strings attached.

Unit1 · Answer

Pretty privilege

missindiana93 · Answer

Because pretty woman use their looks to get men to do anything for them.

thearchjoker · Answer

Welcome to pretty privilege its a thing and has been looked up and researched for years.

Yannae · Answer

Beauty sells and this world can be very superficial

DrPepper12 · Answer

Demeanor, approachability and body language makes the difference between two equally hot women.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Some babes use their beauty to get what they want while some are more reserved and (dare I type this?) ladylike.

Oppenheimers · Answer

O kIt may give the impression that she is an easy prey with a woman, and you may not dare to feed men their money because you are a woman with more lines.

Anonymous · Answer

If it’s men and the women are attractive and friendly they will get lots of things and attention but if she is attractive with a bad attitude she probably won’t get anything

Staximus · Answer

They are probably more manipulative than you

MyBrainsInsaneReign · Answer

The women who get free stuff flirt with men to get those free things. You're not using your looks, so no free stuff for you.

Anonymous · Answer

Oil change: Conventional oil = handjob  Synthetic oil = blowjob

Anonymous · Answer

Because of their personalities, values and attitudes.

Fightersoul95 · Answer

If they receive special treatment, they are more likely to be friendlier than you.

Anonymous · Answer

Because pretty women have power over most men.

SugarSugarplum · Answer

Horny Hopeful simps. Final answer.

TheRealPepperPotts · Answer

Sweet, innocent attitude and femininity.

Richarding · Answer

Due to the Learned Mindset structure

SunnyGirly · Answer

I don't know but I get so jealous

Iron_Man · Answer

Pretty privileged exist

dudegreat91 · Answer

Those women must also be rich probably

Anonymous · Answer

Social construct.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Some guys are suckers.

Anonymous · Answer

The difference is persoanlity.

Anonymous · Answer

Choking up on the bat.

dustybiker2 · Answer

Potential.

Anonymous · Answer

It's called pretty privilege for one reason...

robocop666 · Answer

your attitude

ILIVEGODSLIFE · Answer

Suckas

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