Guy's Behavior

What did I do to make him so uncomfortable?

* I’ve posted a few times here before but as a recap my crush is the assistant sensei at my dojo. He seemed to be showing me more attention recently and offering me rides. *


More recently, however, he seems to be shutting me out and I don’t know what I did wrong. Previously to this be offered to actually pick me up for a seminar which is somewhat out of character as he usually has just been offering me rides home. The entire set of rides (there was a dinner afterwards and such) was just intensely awkward. There seemed to be a lot of tension and awkward silences. When we got there he explained that he forgot the seminar started an hour later this year and suggested we go for coffee which was also awkward. I managed to say a few things about the weird artwork at the time hortons that made him laugh but it didn’t alleviate the awkwardness.

He didn’t sit close to me at the dinner and the walk back to the car he kept a very big distance between us, seemingly embarrassed to be seen with me.

Now he avoid offering me rides home in different ways. Like taking his motorcycle to the dojo instead or seeing me waiting and walking away claiming he forgot something. In class though he now makes more eye contact with me and looks at me whenever a joke is made and if it’s about him he blushes momentarily when I laugh and make eye contact.

I’m 36 he’s probably mid forties. He’s also a high school teacher.

I guess I made him uncomfortable which was not my intention and now I feel awful about it. I guess I should just leave him alone. Any thoughts on what I did wrong?

Updates
1 y
Lol are we really all on here just to ask questions and not offer responses of any kind or did I just phrase things wrong again and no one is saying anything?
What did I do to make him so uncomfortable?
Post Opinion