I'm a male I'm 23 years old I'm approached by men that are age 70 does that mean that I'm a loser?

[RARETRAMP]

[_Maya_]

I doubt this is happening and here is why I say that. How do you know they are 70? Do they tell you? I get approached a lot when I bartend. I have yet to meet the guy (young or old) that has approached me and said "Hi, I'm (insert name) and I am 33 years old". I would probably laugh at them because that is not info I need on first meet. So how do you know their age. Are you carding people when they approach you? Let's say it is true then I ask so what? Perhaps you are attractive to older men that have that sexuality. Is that a bad thing to be attractive to people? I am getting the vibe that for you it is something that you don't like. So just tell them to buzz off and go about your day.

[RARETRAMP]

However women that age or in general don't approach me so that can be a red flag?

[_Maya_]

Most women do not approach. They wait to be approached. So I don't see a correlation.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It means you have sugar baby vibes

[RARETRAMP]

I am a male though that it so weird do you know any man who has been approached by older men?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Sugar baby is a gender neutral term

[tzdc21]

Um... no

[RARETRAMP]

I really feel like a loser guys approach me but women don't I just realyl dont know what is wrong with me?/

[tzdc21]

Just because women don't approach you, doesn't mean you're a lover. Most men NEVER get approached by women in their lives, doesn't mean they're losers

[RARETRAMP]

so why the f you men like me so much?