Do men tend to think/ treat you differently when you change appearance?

[Anonymous]

As in signifiant weight loss and such? Do they see her in a new light?

[Babygirl_S]

The facts that I’ve learned:

1 . you can be a beautiful Indian virgin and 4/10 Indian guys with low incomes/no jobs will disrespect you. Even Aishwarya Rai was beaten up by ugly incel called Salman Khan.

2. You can be a slutty, alcoholic, low quality, racist 5/10 white girl and be all Henry Cavill dreams of. He will cook for you, earn 50 times more than you, be a more respectable human being, he will defend you, get cancelled because of your idiocies and call you beautiful in many Instagram posts even when everyone knows this man can get a Nordic virgin who never drinks or smokes, is kind and away from controversies and still in her 20s. These women are still very rare because their physical appearance alone is considered so important that they don’t bother working on their personality and they also know they could be 4s or 5s and still get to be with a hot Hollywood hunk.

A Hollywood hunk with a racist woman who dyes her hair and looks like an old wicked witch

The one he loved when he was in his physical prime 🤮

So in all honesty, your white skin can take you places where no 10/10 non-white woman can go. I don’t think men react to a change in appearance. They react to the white tag. I talked to an idiot white guy who simped for me when I told him I was an Italian and was very disrespectful when I told him I was Indian. Same girl, different label 🏷️

[4ngelic]

yea if you get significantly more attractive, people in gen esp the opposite sex will treat you nicer

[ProbablyClueless]

I've heard that that happens, but I haven't really found that to be the case. I definitely have more respect for women who have lost a lot of weight, but I don't typically see them in a more sexual light.

I was told something similar would happen with women, where women would treat me better when I lost weight. That didn't happen at all. What I found was that women treated me the same, or even a bit worse when I lost weight.

[EzraIsShy76028]

100%. I wish it wasn't that way, but unfortunately human beings are shallow as fuck. People do judge each other for their looks, whether they like to admit to it or not.

The best you as an individual can do is to treat everyone the same. But unfortunately people treat "ugly" people much worse than they do "attractive" people.

[NathanOlipop]

I do. It should be obvious men do when the "you asked for it dressed like that" meme exists. There is no "you asked for it dressed like that" in my repertoire of what it means to dress as you do, however if you wear a bunch of pretty pastel colors, I'm going to think you're approachable as opposed to wearing a bunch of darker colors. This shouldn't be rocket science to figure out, but somehow it is. I like women who wear skirts, but not too long or too tight, I find. There's a woman I know that ties her hair up in a pony tail, but when she lets it drop, she ends up looking very hot.

[genericname85]

not just men. you're generally treated better by both sexes if you're more attractive. because there's a psychological thing called the halo effect. meaning that the perception of one positive trait (like good looks) bleeds over to the evaluations of other character aspects. that's why people who look good are often percieved to also be smart. even tho looking good and bein smart have nothing to do with each other.

[Finchie40]

It can happen , I knew a girl that was overweight and she would barely get hit on by guys’ but the second she dropped a lot of her weight , Guys’ were hitting her up like crazy and tried getting with her. So yes it could happen

[The_Confusion]

It depends. As you suggested, you could try turning off the lights, or just wear a bag. But sometimes it works to hypnotize the man and make him visualize what you used to look like before gaining weight, to keep him hard.

[Nonamez]

Everyone treats everyone differently, depending on age , status , look , gender , sexuality , culture , nationality, disability, education , fame, political views etc 😳👀😇
We say everyone should be equall, but we are far away from that ,😳

[DryGermanGuy]

I really respect the motivation, work and stamina. That goes for both men and women.

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

Obese or even a chubby young woman = life on hard to medium difficulty.

Average not chubby young woman to an attractive young woman = the world is hers if she wants it.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, but not always for the better.

[Anonymous]

Yes of course. Not all the time because if she’s got a butter face she’s still considered fugly. He may hit it regardless of her butter face but he won’t commit to it.

[ClassicDropout]

Yes. I will definitely be more nervous/courteous around a woman I find extremely attractive.

[Unit1]

Duh. Its called pretty privilege

[paledreams]

Men ♂️ the worst enemy of women lol : men are such pigs lol 😆 indeed

[MoonFace2]

Yep definitely and in terms of what you wear.

[JohnnyB123321]

Yes but so do girls. I lost some weight over the last year and my sex life has certainly improved.

[morganherrel]

Absolutely. And sometimes it's not even shallow. A fat woman deserves to be rewarded for losing weight for many reasons.

[lightbulb27]

generally, yes.

[Anonymous]

From my experience yes. We live in a rather superficial society.

[Anonymous]

It can happen. But never lose weight for someone else. Do it for yourself and your well being.

[SuchSightsToShowYou]

Yes, men do that. Women do too.

It's human nature.

[Starrrboy]

Yeah I've seen it happen.. it's a natural thing.

[Squatting_Slav]

I used to, not anymore I've learnt to be very apathetic

[Anonymous]

Yes, shocking isn't it. Women are exactly the same.

[Account]

100% yes.

[LiamJHayden]

Many times, yes.

[TWO_EYES_119]

Yes all the men love my big squishy belly

[Anonymous]

Not just men--EVERYONE.

[RavVid]

Most definitely.

[PeachyPie93]

Absolutely..

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes.

[jahaims]

Use common sense

[Anonymous]

Often times, yes.