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Been speaking to a guy and we’ve had a few arguments I feel we have a very big difference in opinion sometimes. To the point where I said if we can’t respect each others perspectives then we might aswell not speak. However he just ignores when I say that.
I even cut it off with him because he annoyed me about something and went too far with boundaries. However he reached out & still wants to see me etc after all that time.
Why is this?
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Whoa dude, that's kinda weird that he's trying so hard if you guys don't really know each other that well yet. Like why's he so obsessed already? Usually guys don't get that into it so quick.
And yeah, it definitely sounds like you've had some issues with arguing and boundaries too. I don't really blame you for wanting to cut him off after that stuff. Arguments are one thing but going too far isn't cool.
I'm kinda surprised he's still chasing after you so hard though after you ended it already. That's pretty persistent... maybe a little too much? It's good that he wants to see you again I guess, but he gotta respect what you say too.
It's hard to say exactly why he's acting like this since I don't know the guy. Maybe he just really likes your looks or something clicked for him. But the arguing and boundary issues would be a red flag for me.
If I were you, I'd just be really direct with him. Let him know exactly how the past stuff made you feel and that he needs to seriously respect your feelings and opinions going forward if he wants another chance. Then you'll know for sure whether he's really willing to change or if he'll keep being too pushy. Better to find out now before wasting more time, you know? Just be careful and trust your gut on this one.
I wouldn’t say he’s trying so hard just by talking to you still because that doesn’t require a lot of effort. I just don’t think your different opinions are a deal breaker for him. I remember back in 2020 speaking with this guy I met through a dating app for a while. When election time came around we had such different opinions about our candidates and clashed so hard it made me lose interest slowly and not want to talk at all. He didn’t see things the way I did, so he kept reaching out to engage. But the thing is I would respond, just like you respond. It’s hard for men to take you seriously when you say one thing and do another. Like cutting him off but still responding when he reaches out. You’ve got to cut it off completely if you really mean it…. Unless you don’t.
Ah okay I understand where you’re coming from. But the difference in opinions is like for more intimate things like sex & him asking opinions about kinks etc. I responded because he was ringing on no caller id. This was a few weeks after we stopped speaking.
He rang on no caller but didn’t allow it to go through so seems like he wanted me to reach out. I was genuinely concerned as why’s he doing this so that’s when I reached out to him.
Like are you not very comfortable talking about those things and he pressures you? Because a guy like that will only want one thing, and he will either keep using you for it until he moves on or ditch you completely after he gets it. But when sex is so involved in conversations at any capacity then I think that’s all they really want. Sucks that you reached out to him but that’s in the past now. It’s not too late to do things differently going forward.
Yeah I’m not very comfortable but I’ve made it clear 🤷🏽♀️ he still wants to continue talking to me so I’m not sure. Ahh okay, well I just wanted to see why he’s ringing like that after I cut it off. Yeah I guess 🤷🏽♀️🙃😕
If I were you, I wouldn’t waste time talking to the guy who can’t respect my boundaries. He still wants to continue talking? Great, would that exclude sexting or anything of that nature? Because if he wants pure platonic then maybe a friendship would work but I highly doubt that’s what he wants. In which case he’s not worth having around at any level. He’s far too selfish about his own wants and needs to respect yours.
Ah okay well we don’t do any sexting to be honest. He’s just mentioned sex here and there and the most he’s asked is what my kinks are. Yeah don’t think we could be friends to be honest 🤷🏽♀️ I just don’t understand why he keeps pushing for it because he definitely knows I’m someone firm with my boundaries. Why not try it with someone easier to get to?
Some men draw hope from the little things. He may feel like you’re playing hard to get since you have engaged in some level of dirty talk, but not really allowing things to go further. That’s not your problem though. He won’t get the hint until you fully don’t respond to a single thing or engage. Like when he was calling you and hanging up or whatever, I wouldn’t have called back because there was no good reason for that.
He is a psychopath, desperate, or you are smokin hot.