My romantic dreams are fading tbe more I realize the reality of men psyche. What do I do?

[Whyishehappy]

I’ve had to realize men are able to compartamentalize and I’m not

That means just because I feel me and a man have this strong connection or some sort of bond doesn’t mean he has no issue going with other women when I’m away.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You accept the reality that a lot of men will not be willing to meet your expectations, much less do so without you directly and constantly communicating it to them. From there, you learn why you want a man and if that companionship can’t be replaced with something else.

[RageBabe]

I like to call it the rose-coloured glasses effect; you have to remove them to start seeing things more realistically. You feel a strong connection, and that's great, but does he feel the same?

[Whyishehappy]

He seems to feel something. But what’s stoping him from , if we get together, going off and compartmentaliing our bond and then going and flirting and cheating with others as if he was single?

[RageBabe]

He might feel something, but he needs to be fully in it. Does that make sense? I feel like your answer is here: “going off and compartmentalising our bond and then going and flirting and cheating with others as if he were single.” There seems to be a lot of doubt. Openly communicate with him and tell him how you feel, and take it from there.

[Whyishehappy]

Men can lie so I can ask all I want. People can say anything to get what they want.

[RageBabe]

Communication is crucial, as is obviously trusting; yet, without communication/actions, it cannot get to the point of trusting, thus you have to make a decision to stay in or end the relationship. Good luck.

[Whyishehappy]

Thanks

[NamerOfStars]

Stop spamming this; opening up new accounts to ask the same question doesn't make you look any better.

[Avicenna]

You need to clear your mind before you try to date again

[Whyishehappy]

How?

[jamesgoldman]

Thats life, I quit that shit years ago and I'm far better for it


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[DryGermanGuy]

Get professional help, you eternal weirdo.

[Plugs]

I think the same

[Whyishehappy]

Dang girl what do we do

[Plugs]

I don’t know. Even the ugly broke ones compartmentalize

[Whyishehappy]

lol I know. I’m broke and I have coworkers. That’s basically where I noticed this.