Should I stick to reality and not think romantic thoughts about a man I like?

Anonymous
I realized i can have romantic thoughts all i want... But it doesn't amount to anything if i dont have a man who shares them with me.
Just because a man was nice and even i feel saved my life doesn't mean he wants to be with me romantically. I have to let this go, be thankful for what he did, and move on.

Wondering if he likes me is just setting up expectation. Not helpful right?
I find that perhaps i do too much daydreaming and thinking of what MIGHT be... Instead of accepting what IS.
He he Might like me and Might ask me out soon...

But in reality, days go by and he has not done anything more than mere friendly advances.

So why spend time getting eomantic thoughts and wondering what he Could be thinking?

Just accept reality
Should I stick to reality and not think romantic thoughts about a man I like?
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