Why is it ok for girls to hit guys but when guys hit them back everyone steps in?

[missindiana93]

[Yannae]

It's never okay. I just think the community is fucked up.

[jahaims]

It's not okay for girls to hit a guy unless he hit first.

[ohsheeT]

It's not okay for girls to hit guys I mean there's no reason for it.

And that's the reason why everybody jumps in because of a girl hits a guy and if the guy's stupid enough to hit her back that everybody's going to jump in and it's not going to look too good for him either... nobody should hit anybody ever...


I meant this girl and I was trying to help her out but anything one thing led to another and we kind of got together and then the next few days she was telling me about some guys that she had gone out with and that something had happened and how much of a p**** they were because she would hit them and none of them did anything to her and she bragged about it and that kind of set me wrong

Well anyways a few more days later I was up at this property that I was taking care of she was with me and I found out that she was taking things from the property and then I caught her taking things from the property and I told her she better return everything and she kind of got pissed
Well I used to have my motorhome parked up there that would stay up there every once in awhile so I walked up to my motorhome and that was in there for probably 5-10 minutes and I started walking back down into the garage and she started heading towards me facing me and I could tell just by the look at her eyes something was up and before she got any closer to me I said I'm only going to tell this to you one time

I'm not your ex boyfriends and I'll tell you something if you swing at me I'm going to knock your ass out bottom line I'm just going to give you fair warning right now I'm not going to repeat myself but if you think you're big enough to hit me go for it otherwise you better think twice
And that kind of took the wind right out her sails
Because I'm pretty sure that's what she was going to try to do and I'm glad she didn't because I would have done it just because she thought that all these other guys allows her to do it there's no way I was going to let her even get close to doing it

Just because I'm not that type of guy anyway but the way she bragged about hitting all these other guys and the way that she just thought she was just so cool
And I really didn't like it to she even acted that way

Would I have been wrong depends I would have been wrong just on one condition and that's because I hit probably 20 times harder than she does

But nobody should hit anybody ever if you can't talk about it can't use your words then walk away

[Vesuvius87]

It's not ok to hit anyone. As for why more people react when the man hits the woman, it's because he carries more power in his hit and can possibly hurt her badly (even kill her) if he goes full punch, if he were to use all his strength.

Taking gender aside, I'll put my best female friend and I as well. While I'm nearly 150 Ibs, 5'7 and had some Judo training, she is 4'10, think and no training. If she were to hit me, I wouldn't feel anything and it would be like a child throwing a tantrum but if I hit her back, I'm going to hurt her badly. I wouldn't hit her back full force but I would be restraining her or pin her down till she calms.

[ClassicDropout]

I don't know it's weird. I think the sentiment there is "girls are so weak you shouldn't even feel threatened if they hit you."

Okay I'll take the fall here. I have definitely been beaten by a girl before. Not in a fight because I wasn't fighting back, but she hit me in the face a couple times and I lowkey got stitches in my mouth. I don't condone violence against women, but people need to respond to aggression appropriately whether its a man or woman attacking them.

[Jennz6]

If I wear a short skirt, do you think that I am hitting on a guy?