Why would someone waste their time to have a tantrum at someone on here?

[MK1997]

I saw a guy start calling another guy all kinds of insults because he was having sex with an 18 year old and he was in his 40s.

Like did he think he will stop him from having sex with her or something?

[RichA322]

Because other people want to ENFORCE their viewpoint onto others to control them.

Control freaks. It is that simple. They want to control everything and opress other people. This is what it is. Exactly like the church when they forcefully converted people to Christianity or killed them if they refused. It's about control, nothing more.

If a 18 year old has sex with a 50 year old, is absolutely not my problem. I would only argue against it, IF I had children and they would do it and ONLY based on the earlier death and short life expectancy on one of them in a relationship. But otherwise: I don't care, I'm not interested if old has sex with young or male with male or some couples have sex 10 times a day.

I Don't care, I won't care.

[HungTexan]

What was he yelling at him. Was the girl his sister or something? Some people need to get a real life and chill out.

[MK1997]

Even if it was his sister it's none of his business

[BobbieBoy666]

Someone might engage in a tantrum online for a variety of reasons, often stemming from emotional dysregulation, a desire to control or manipulate, or a need to express frustration or anger.
Here are some potential reasons:
Emotional Dysregulation:
Individuals with conditions like Intermittent Explosive Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, or ADHD may struggle to manage their emotions, leading to outbursts disproportionate to the situation.
Lack of Impulse Control:
Some individuals may simply lack the ability to regulate their impulses, leading to impulsive and potentially destructive behavior, including tantrums.
Manipulation and Control:
Tantrums can be a form of manipulation, used to gain attention, exert control over others, or get their way. They may be a learned behavior from childhood or a way to avoid facing underlying issues.
Underlying Anxiety or Fear:
Anger and tantrums may be a manifestation of underlying anxieties or fears. A person might lash out as a way to defend themselves or cope with overwhelming emotions.
Need to Express Frustration or Anger:
Online platforms can provide a space for individuals to vent their anger and frustration, especially when they feel unheard or powerless in other areas of their lives.
Seeking Attention:
Some individuals may engage in tantrums to gain attention, even if it's negative attention. This could be a sign of low self-esteem or a need for validation.
Lack of Social Skills or Emotional Intelligence:
Some people may not have the skills to express their emotions constructively or communicate their needs effectively, leading to frustration and outbursts.
Substance Abuse:
Substance abuse can exacerbate anger and impulsivity, increasing the likelihood of tantrums or aggressive behavior.
Feeling Unheard or Unseen:
When individuals feel like their concerns are being ignored or dismissed, they may resort to extreme measures like tantrums to get their voices heard.
Lack of Empathy:
Some people may not be able to see the impact their actions have on others, leading to a disregard for the feelings of those they are lashing out at.
In essence, a tantrum, regardless of the setting, is often a sign of underlying emotional distress or a coping mechanism for dealing with difficult situations. It's important to remember that while these behaviors can be frustrating and disruptive, they often reflect deeper issues that may require support or intervention.

[AnonAndrew]

People are weird, and especially on the Internet.

On the Internet a lot of people talk to others in aggressive and rude ways they'd never do in real life.

[MK1997]

Agreed

[XXblack88]

I don't know. those of us who are in our late 30's early 40's are old enough to be a mom/dad to someone that age however as long as they are both consenting adults' their not breaking any laws.

[ProbablyClueless]

Lol It can be therapeutic. I'd like to think @OddBeMe and I have an understanding at this point.

Although I'd stop if he tells me he has a problem with it.

[OddBeMe]

Never. How else would I jerk off

[MK1997]

What are you talking about lol @ProbablyClueless

[ProbablyClueless]

@mk1997 Oh... We just have a running sort of game where we're casually shitty, unreasonable and combative with each other over politics. It's all in good fun though.

[Douglas1179]

When I have sex with an 18 year old, all I hear is her moaning in my ear. So they're both full of crap.

[Sunrising]

I think AI Laura gives good advice, whether he takes it, is up to him !

[shortster]

It's the internet, we are all wasting our time on here.

[WilliamPamer446]

Safer to express your emotions/opinion explosively on here than in real life

[Fireguy17]

Clueless, the other person probably didn't even read it?

[Wiredone]

I'd like to see that post. You seem to be a magnet to those types of questions

[Celticwolf78]

They are both adults it shouldn't matter to others what they are doing

[jahaims]

Because what is and isn't a waste is subjective

[MK1997]

How's that useful?

[Pete671]

Just jealous lol,,,

[Den1971]

They need a fucking job

[LunarEclipse433]

A lot of things don’t make sense

[eagle1951]

yeah some get bend out of shape over that

[MK1997]

Weird