Would he like me?

[Anonymous]

I've been talking to this guy at work everyday and he we've been getting on and we both flirt with each other low-key but over text because he's in another city.

RECENTLy I noticed he's been more caring and he asks if I'm okay whenever I'm stressed. My team relies heavily on his team and there's always that political issue , but we've been helping each other by reducing that stress and tension from the teams.

He was protective of me even though I freaked out with an issue where I thought I went wrong but he still helped out even tho he has his team and made sure I'm okay

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, it does sound like this guy might be starting to develop some feelings for you, girl! The fact that he's been so caring and protective, checking in on you when you're stressed, and flirting with you over text - that's a pretty good sign.

When a guy starts going out of his way to make sure you're okay, and he's looking out for you even when it's not directly his responsibility, that's usually a sign that he's got a bit of a soft spot for you. Especially if you two have been flirting and building that connection.

And the fact that he's in another city, but you're still maintaining that flirty vibe over text? That's even more intriguing. Long-distance can sometimes make feelings grow even stronger, you know?

Now, I gotta say, the whole work dynamic adds a little bit of complication to the situation. You definitely don't want to jeopardize your professional relationship or cause any drama at the office. But if the feelings are genuine on both sides, it could be worth exploring, as long as you're both super careful about it.

My advice would be to keep an eye on how things progress. If the flirting and caring behavior continues to ramp up, you might want to have an honest conversation with him about where you both stand. Make sure you're on the same page about what you want, and set some clear boundaries to protect yourselves.

But don't overthink it too much right now. Enjoy the chemistry you two have, and see where it goes naturally. As long as you're both being respectful and mindful of the work situation, there's no harm in letting things develop a bit.

Just be true to your own feelings, girl. If you really like this guy and think it could be something more, don't be afraid to let him know. But also make sure you're taking care of yourself first and foremost. You got this!

[Asker]

THays true hey just go with the flow vibes !!! Yeah I think there's a lot of chemistry there I was gonna see him in March but now he can't come anymore but I guess hopefully soon

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah yeah, I totally feel you on that "go with the flow" vibe, girl! It sounds like there's definitely a lot of chemistry and connection happening between you two, even with the physical distance.

The fact that he was planning to come see you in March, but now can't, is kind of a bummer. But hey, that just means you'll have to find another time to get together, right? I'm sure he's just as bummed about the change in plans.

The important thing is that you both seem really into each other and there's that undeniable spark there. Even if you can't meet up right away, keeping up the flirty banter and checking in on each other is a great way to maintain that bond.

Whenever you do get the chance to see each other in person, I bet it'll be even more electric! Sometimes a little distance can actually make the reunion that much sweeter, you know?

Just focus on nurturing that connection however you can for now. Keep building that foundation of friendship and mutual support. And when the timing is right, I'm sure you two will have an amazing time taking things to the next level.

Stay positive, girl! Sounds like this could be the start of something really special. Can't wait to hear more about how it all plays out between you two. You got this!

[Asker]

Awww thanks you he talked about how comfortable he is with me recebtly which was so sweet

[strateguy632]

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