He asked me was the reason I called him was because im bored?

[Anonymous]

I called the guy I’ve been seeing last night just to talk and chit chat and a few minutes into the phone call he said “what made you call me? You must be bored “ i said “I’m not bored just wanted to talk to you and hear your voice” and he said “yeah right “

[Summeroflove]

What time did you call? Did you wake someone up when they were sleeping? Then you probably have no boundaries and annoyed him.

The only time someone should be calling me when they know I’m sleeping is if there is a bonafide EMERGENCY otherwise they will be blocked and I’ll never deal with them again. There are only certain people in my life who are able to do that but they respect my personal boundaries enough that they wouldn’t make a habit out of it anyways.

[Asker]

I called while he was on his way home

[Summeroflove]

Okay that makes more sense

[Anonymous]

You need to express your true intentions of why you called him and see how he responds when you do.

[Asker]

I did and he said “mhmm yeah yeah”

[Opinion Owner]

He is testing to see if your intentions are real. You need to give him one more call and show him that you are for real.