Why do men think everything women do is for men?

[chocolatetwopointo]

[Anonymous]

We don’t. Maybe some men do but don’t include all us men in one category. Just like you said you don’t speak for all women when someone asked you the same question about women.

[chocolatetwopointo]

omfg, then this obviously wasn't aimed at u. not everything is ab u. men r so selfish. yeah so im asking THOSE men. dont be offended if ur not part of the problem, its that fucking easy.

[Opinion Owner]

lol well maybe you should learn how to phrase things properly. I’m sure a lot of men would have taken it the same way I did. Hell I’m sure a lot of women would have taken it the same way if I said why don’t all women get in the kitchen and make their man a sandwich. Then you respond similar to how I did only for me to say OMFG this isn’t about you. You’re so selfish lol

[chocolatetwopointo]

or maybe you men could understand THAT NOT EVERYTHINH IS AB U. and that if ur not a part of what im talking about WHY R U OFFENDED? it seriously makes no fucking sense. like i dont go out of my way to tell men ”i dont do that” or such bc i know im not part of the problem. thats js u demanding smth thats not a question. i wouldn't respond to that at all💀 how am i selfish now?

[chocolatetwopointo]

fkn retards istg

[Opinion Owner]

lol emotionally based you didn’t even read my response to try to understand it. That’s why you should not become a lawyer.

[chocolatetwopointo]

how was that emotionally based? i did read ur response and ur making no sense. lets take it slower. if YOU know you’re not apart of a problem, like THESE men, dont go in my responses saying ”i dont” bc u won't get a cookie, js ignore it. its really not hard.

[Opinion Owner]

How do I know it was emotionally based? Well for one all the caps indicates a louder tone of voice, maybe even anger. Also the fact that you can’t respond to people w out cussing shows a lack of emotional control. Just cause someone is yelling or cussing doesn’t mean they’re winning an argument. Didn’t take much to set you off. So again, that’s why you shouldn’t become a lawyer.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes bc ur obviously not getting it. it really doesn't lmao. ah yes bc i swear id be a terrible lawyer. if i wanted to i wouldn't swear, but this isn't court, right?

[Opinion Owner]

Lol ok

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao, do u understand now?

[Opinion Owner]

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[Caroline91]

@chocolatetwopointo One woman to another: You're managing to make yourself look really bad here. Once you start yelling and swearing, you lose the discussion. Every time. Just something good for you to know as you mature. You can always just calmly say "I don't think we're going to come to an agreement here, so let's just move one." End the discussion and do exactly that... move on. If you to have a chance of a man hearing you, you gotta stay calm and rational.

[Caroline91]

@chocolatetwopointo. *If you want to have

[chocolatetwopointo]

dont know why it matters that ur a woman but ok, I've been calmly talking all argument, but he does no understand. if i need to swear to be heard idc. and idc if i lose. as long as retards learn common sense. i won't be fucking calm.

[ProbablyClueless]

Because we know that a whole lot of what we do is for women.

I think a lot of that perspective also comes from personal observation.

[chocolatetwopointo]

thats sad, why do u do sm for women?

[ProbablyClueless]

It's a way to demonstrate your value to a woman and show that you're the kind of guy who could contribute to her quality of life.

[Apple1996]

I hate that especially with clothes. Men always think we dress for them 🙄

[scooogy]

@Apple1996 you look great in everything dear :)

[Apple1996]

@scooogy awh thanks!

[CaptainObivous]

We don't, your just generalizing all men for something a small minority of men do. Before you say this isn't aimed at me, either your lying or should have worded your question differently. If you're not lying maybe your question should have been worded "Men who believe everything a woman does is for men, why do you believe or think that way?".

[chocolatetwopointo]

bc its not a minority anymore. every single woman will or does have maybe even multiple stories of it.

[CaptainObivous]

That's not true, no doubt some women have that experience, but not all do, and saying it's not a minority anymore is false, it's still a minority whether your willing to see it or not.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and how am i supposted to trust any when so many do it?

[CaptainObivous]

You don't, never automatically trust anyone you don't know man or woman, even if you know them, don't automatically trust them if they have a history of being trustworthy.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok so ill never trust any man ever, got it. thanks. women r more trustworthy and if they did smth id be more likely to get away.

[CaptainObivous]

That's not what I said, your taking what I said and twisting to fit your narrative, I said never trust anyone you don't know man or WOMAN. Men and women are equally untrustworthy which is why I said not to automatically trust either one if you don't know them. Last word should be untrustworthy not trustworthy, didn't notice autofill switched it.

[chocolatetwopointo]

it was satire but ok. yh but ill never be able to trust anyone 100%

[Summeroflove]

Most men don’t… same as most women don’t think everything a man does is for them.

[chocolatetwopointo]

how do u know that?

[Summeroflove]

Because I’m a man lol

[chocolatetwopointo]

so? do yk every man?

[Summeroflove]

No and you don’t either. Some men think that way I know some women think that way as well.

There are women who do everything for men and women who think men do everything for them. Obviously not all think that way

[chocolatetwopointo]

never said i did. yh ofc but now im talking ab men.
yeah no shit sherlock

[Summeroflove]

You’re saying men instead of some men…. Their thinking is probably they do everything in life to impress women who they project that out.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes bc i thought it went without saying… y'all r stupid and it shows

[Summeroflove]

The only one whose a bit slow is you. Especially if you think all men are the same. Why do you even care? Get off this site and focus on something you care about

[Summeroflove]

I don’t think all women are like you…. But if they were I would probably be a sexist pig like you are

[chocolatetwopointo]

and when did i say all men r the same? nah im pretty bored rn.

[Summeroflove]

You say “oh men suck on men bla bla bla”

[chocolatetwopointo]

and? when did i say all men r the same?

[Summeroflove]

Many times.

[chocolatetwopointo]

give me an example then

[Summeroflove]

Many times in comments to me

[chocolatetwopointo]

then give an example lol

[Summeroflove]

You remember what you said I don’t think you’re that forgetful. You seem to take your romantic bitterness out on men who aren’t even your romantic partners.

[chocolatetwopointo]

wdym romantic bitterness? and wheres ur example?

[Summeroflove]

When you just complain non stop

[chocolatetwopointo]

how is thar romantic bitterness? and wheres ur example?

[Keyboardkat]

Why do women think everything men do is for women?

[chocolatetwopointo]

i dont, but i dont speak for all women so idk🤷‍♀️

[Keyboardkat]

Well, I don't, either, so I don't speak for all men. Men, like women, are individuals. We are just people. We are not mass produced in a factory. We are not all the same.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay

[TonyMetal___86]

I don't think so!
Anyways, what are the things that a girl does for a man? 🤔

[chocolatetwopointo]

then this wasn't aimed to u.
nothing.

[TonyMetal___86]

What would you do for a man?

[chocolatetwopointo]

depends what he's doing to me. to get his attention, nothing. to get rid of him, probably act weird and disgusting, heard it works.

[TonyMetal___86]

What if you have liked a man and want him so bad to be with you because he's a good guy, would you go and talk nice to him and tell hik the truth or you're shy?

You have so much under appreciation of yourself and a lack of self esteem, you always think that ither girls are better than you, who said so?

[chocolatetwopointo]

i wouldn't like a guy that bad, if i did im a lost cause and shoot me. even if i like somebody i can't imagine myself in a relationship like at all, so no id prob leave him alone.

well most r? and i js dont care tbh💀

[TonyMetal___86]

Why you can't imagine yourself being in a relationship? Like what are the reasons?

[chocolatetwopointo]

relationships r weird and cringe. and i would rather die than tell my parents. i wouldn't wanna have to talk to somebody every single day, id get tired of them so fast, i can never hang out and i js dont have the energy for it

[TonyMetal___86]

You're only 16, what made you feel like this? Are you planning on staying your whole life single?

[chocolatetwopointo]

I don't know it always has been. yes totally, i never want a relationship

[TonyMetal___86]

I believe that you will change with time and if you meet someone who is a good guy, he might make you change your mind...

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah no, as i said. i can't see myself in a relationship. i have terrible mood swings, a teen guy would never be able to handle that. he won't. and no man is that perfect.

[TonyMetal___86]

That's why i told you "with time", you won't always be 16...

[chocolatetwopointo]

well I've thought exactly like this since i was 10 so i doubt it’ll change

[TonyMetal___86]

10 and 16 means you're still growing up, too much hormones changing in your body plus you aren't mature enough yet...

You might remain like that and maybe not!

[chocolatetwopointo]

most likely will, i made a promise to myself at 12 that i would never cry over a man, i won't break my promise

[TonyMetal___86]

Why would you cry over a man of he's a good to you, you will cry over a man only if you loved him for real and he wasn't worth it

[chocolatetwopointo]

bc u never know what men can do, esp teenage guys. all my friends have had bfs, all ended up with a broken heart in a few months. thats why i will never love one

[TonyMetal___86]

See, that's why you think like that 😏
If someone wasn't like that than this rule wouldn't apply to him

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah but men ARE like that. if i was dating now id prob alr have broken my heart loads of times. u can never know how he will react to things before getting into a relationship

[TonyMetal___86]

Same thing goes to a girl, i'm a good guy, what if i fell for a bad girl who will break my heart?
In a relationship, it's like an experience, you will never know what's waiting for you, no guarantees about it...

[chocolatetwopointo]

then js dont fall in love, exactly, but its a higher chance he’ll break my heart than that we’ll live happily ever after

[TonyMetal___86]

Maybe yes and maybe no 🤷🏻‍♂️

[chocolatetwopointo]

probably yes

[TonyMetal___86]

Tbh in this generation, i think that it's gonna be a probably yes...

[chocolatetwopointo]

yup thats why i won't do it

[Agape93]

A deluded sense of self importance.

[LiamJHayden]

I don't know guys who believe that.

[chocolatetwopointo]

then this isn't aimed at u.

[Ariesman81]

Cause it is

[chocolatetwopointo]

how?

[Ariesman81]

Argue with a minor... no thanks

[chocolatetwopointo]

too scared?

[Anonymous]

We don't.

[chocolatetwopointo]

then this isn't aimed at you.

[Opinion Owner]

If it's not for men, then who did you mean it to be for?

[chocolatetwopointo]

for THOSE men. obviously not including u.

[chocolatetwopointo]

this is common knowledge bffr.