Why do men think we do everything for them?

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

[DonaldDarko]

Women do pretty much nothing for me as a group. I guess they take my money at the grocery store , my dentist is a woman, some of them work at the bank , a cop one time, a few doctors , nurses. There are men that do all that stuff too though.

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[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

yet I've seen u say women dress for men.

[DonaldDarko]

Oh that's what you mean, yes they definitely do that. They're not getting into sexual posses for other women, they don't even like each other much, it's pretty cut throat.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

here he goes. what makes u think that? we like other women and dress for them a lot of times.

[Anonymous]

We don’t. You’re over inflating women’s worth like men really need women for everything. The major majority of what I need done in life is done by other men. Plumbing, constructing, mechanic, law enforcement, firefighters, electrical, etc, etc. Yes there’s a few women who do those jobs. I know you’re going to jump in w that, but a majority majority of those jobs are done by men.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

read the other responses under this question.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Because they live in a patriarchy, a society that caters to their desires above all else. Of course they grow up believing that everything falls into this line of “this is for you.”

[Nikki1989]

The smart ones don't think like that. Regrettably, they are not so common.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'm not like the other men, I only think you're good for one thing.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

basic male

[Berethor]

Because women tend to do stuff for being more attractive to men.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Cause many women do, just how many men do things for women, its only natural and basic mating logic.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

thats like saying all men rape js bc many men do.

[ChicoFromThe305]

That is not at all what I'm saying, I think your brain has no wrinkles

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

thats what u said tho💀

[ChicoFromThe305]

I didn't, by mating I don't mean sex like animals, I mean attraction and interest, you just twisted it to rape somehow 😂

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

i meant the first part.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

retard🤦‍♀️

[ChicoFromThe305]

What you said only makes sense in your head 😂

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's your issue, you only use a part of what someone says to concoct your own ideas, that's a dangerous way of thinking, you are suppose to use everything I said to understand what I mean not a piece of it, I don't know why you always wanna argue, you've got some loose screws little girl 😂🖖🏼

[ChicoFromThe305]

Honestly why are you always arguing, why not maturely speak and listen to both opinions and have a peaceful debate 💀

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

it was pretty obvious of what i was answering💀

[ChicoFromThe305]

Very obvious to you, I'm still waiting for you to comprehend the other half of what I said so we can be on the same page young sapling ha

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

and i did comprehend it. when did i say i didn't?

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

gosh we really have to coach men through their lives its insane how codependent y'all r

[ChicoFromThe305]

Stop being sexist, you are too young to be sexist already 😂

Why do you hate men tho?

Well if you comprehended it then that's good, I think men and women should live in peace among each other, it is unfortunate some men behave like animals, but in reality men and women need each other, both have a valuable role in society to keep society functioning.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

its not sexism if its true🤷‍♀️

bc how am u supposted to trust u if so many men rape, kill and kidnap a lot of women? its terrifying being a woman and not knowing what men will do to u.

yeah i agree.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Truths are truths but it's the way you say them that sound sexist.

Although you make a very valid point younglin, it is a dangerous world out there and there's a lot of sickos and it does make it hard to trust but if these sickos can change your perspective so much who is really winning there, because there's lots of men that only want to do the opposite, that's value you and protect you, you must remain in between until their actions and behaviors lean you a certain way, in at least 23 states there's stand your ground laws, which means you can more than likely shoot one of these rapists in the face to prevent them from harming you, and the government will just pat your head telling you good job, trust me I wished we lived in a world where women can walk around free of perversion but unfortunately that's a luxury we don't have but personally I certainly don't want to be thrown in the same category as them, I've never harmed a woman in my life and never will, and id die protecting mine so you know.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

ok well im not.

sure but how can we actually know? there's loads of women who thought she married a nice guy but then turns out to be a creep or murderer. even after they have kids and he changes. ok good for u.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I'm not bragging, my point is that there's many people that are the same and you can miss that if you are always worrying they are a bad person, and people only change I they want too, keep that in mind, the reason it's so important it's because for the most part people don't want to change, they live the way they want cause that's how they want to live, if someone treats women properly and cherishes them then that's cause they like living that way which for the most part means you shouldn't worry about them changing, also many chances happen though experiences so if you don't give them a reason to change on you then you are only helping them not to change, her is something comforting, according to researchers, they studied this and they say that 91% of the things you overthink, worry, stress or get anxious about never really happen, that's a big percentage younglin, you can be prepared for something and not have to block things in your life, just be aware and be logical, you'll be alright.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

i think you missunderstood. im scared of men bc I don't know which ones to believe when there's so many bad men out there. many women have thought they dated nice men but then changed when they started getting close and she thought she knew him. and then one day he js kills her. that has happened lots of times. probably more than u think, thats my and many other womens worst fear. those men are manipulators they can hide who they are for years before showing their true colors.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea I understand that, and it's valid, where I was going with what I said is that for the most part you basically have a 91% chance of that not happening if that's one of your everyday worries and it does happen but for the most part there's signs, thing is many people ignore signs and I believe that's where you should focus on, if you don't ignore the signs that for the most part are clear then you won't have an issue with avoiding dangerous men, to hide it fully would take far too much of many forms of effort to keep you in the dark completely and focus most on personality traits, for example, aggression, if you see aggression in a man, the chances of abuse or the outcome you fear are high, if they are manipulators as well, to catch a manipulator, catch them in their lies, pay attention to what they are a liar has a high chance of being a manipulator, these are examples, if you go around logically reading them like this you are cautious enough to avoid these dangers but at the same time If a good man comes along, those green flags would light up, for you specific situation, I recommend finding a man that's patient, and forgiving, with this combination of personality traits, it makes it extremely unlikely that they will end up how you fear they will, because if they are forgiving they have a hard time holding grudges or holding hatred in their heart, if they are patient then that means they are calm, which also makes it even harder for them to want to harm you, there's other good traits that help such as empathetic and sympathetic, this means they feel guilt and have feelings which will help them a lot in not making decisions they know will make them feel guilt etc.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

sure but what if im in the 9% that it DOES happen to? thats my point. and i believe id be one to not see the signs, thats also a reason.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well then you are cooked 😂

Nah but foreal tho, does separating yourself completely change anything? Realistically speaking we live in a world where children get caught in the crossfire of gang wars, meaning some lunatic dude can come out of nowhere and break into your house and chop your head off (or woman) thing is if it's your time then it's your time, death is inevitable, if you aren't dying from a murder you are dying from a slip in the tub, the world might surprise you, you can end up with a guy that would burn the whole world for you, hurt everyone and everything but you, no need to live in fear.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

it’ll hurt more if i get killed by someome i trusted or loved. so i think ill skip.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I see, well I hope you have enough good experiences that will eventually change your mind, good discussion younglin. 👏🏼💯

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

kk bye

[PaleDale]

I don't. But there's a lot of assholes around.

by the way I'm sorry your other account got banned. Admin sucks.

[Anonymous]

Because you are a mental user here.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

what?