Girls, Is there any way to make men more romantic or is romance dead?

[MissTrix]

Always seems to be that boys want the shortest easiest way. When I'd love some effort thought and care. Not just how many dates till...

So gave up on guys and much better for it. Are we always destined to get our loving romance from Books?

[Ms_Facesitter]

Romance isn't dead, but the more he cares about you the more he's going to do for you. With my man, that came more as time passed. But not every guy has the tendency to be romantic, there are different ways to show affection. In that regard, you just need to luck out and meet a guy who expresses his affection in the way you want.

[MissTrix]

Or in the way you suggest and tell him. Taking out the trash after you nagged them is so not sexy lol

Feels like when you tell guys what you want they ignore it and do more of what they want.

[MissTrix]

Lucky you with your man! Congrats

[Ms_Facesitter]

Yes! If he's a great guy he'll remember the little things. He'll remember that one time you mentioned liking to eat somewhere, what kind of flowers you like, your favorite snacks, ... He'll pick up on these things, but that comes with time.

[Ms_Facesitter]

It's not suggesting things, but you just being you and letting you know what you like and dislike, and as he gets to know you, he'll know how to make you happy and the other way around of course.

[MissTrix]

Thanks have that in my girlfriend. Not trying to train a boy. Maybe if someday I meet a man but doubt there are any left mostly just soft whiny boys.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Oh there are plenty left, don't worry ^^

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You can’t force someone to care, as much as you might demand it. Their effort can only reflect as much as they’re willing to bother with. If your man is not treating you the way you want, then leave him.