If a guy becomes super nervous around a girl is that a sign he likes you?

[Anonymous]

There’s a guy who’s really good looking and seems fine talking to other girls, usually confident but when he’s around me he seems really nervous and self conscious, could this be a sign he likes me?

I just wonder why he’s like that when he seems otherwise really confident,

I’m a pretty easy going and chilled kind of gal.

[ProbablyClueless]

Could be... sometimes, a person's vibe just makes you uncomfortable.

The only times I've gotten nervous around girls, it's been because I get the distinct vibe that they didn't like me. I don't say that to suggest that you're giving off a bad vibe though.

[Asker]

Thanks yeah good to know.

[Shiprex]

It could be and you should explore by asking him if he likes you as you seem to like him so let us know how it goes.

[Asker]

Grea thank you

[Yohenis]

Yes he does we only do stupid thing when we are near our crushes/loved ones. It's a guy thing

[Asker]

Yeah right, thanks makes sense

[BobbyLee789]

Yes, because your opinion is very important to him, and he feels like he's in the spotlight

[Asker]

Oh ok, thank you, good to know,

[Cormac995]

almost a dead certain yes.

[Asker]

You reckon?

[Cormac995]

Yes this is guy 101 stuff.

[Asker]

Ok thanks

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope. He’s not nervous with other girls.

[Asker]

But that he is with me.. so what does that mean then?

[BarryLiverstone]

It means you find him to be cute and are projecting

[Asker]

I know what you mean, yes he is, but if a guy is fidgeting and stuttering in front of me, how am I the one projecting?

[BarryLiverstone]

Because you think he doesn’t stutter with other girls. When he does.. you just don’t see it happen

[Asker]

Hmm I don’t think that’s true with other female workers, but ok.

[BarryLiverstone]

You didn’t mention other workers, you said other girls.

[Asker]

Well yeah I mean other girls and guys

[BarryLiverstone]

You said that he’s confident with others. So either he’s at work and trying to be professional or he’s stuttering with other girls one on one and you just don’t see it

He can get therapy for stuttering

[Asker]

Yes I meant he’s confident with other coworkers girls and guys, I’ve never seen him stutter in a meeting, but with me he seems nervous eg fidgets, seems self conscious eg drops thi boyfriend a and stutters sometimes. That’s what I’ve noticed.

[BarryLiverstone]

And you find this attractive? Because I’ve heard that confidence is attractive and he seems to be acting insecurely

[Asker]

I said he’s attractive, but no I was surprised he acts that like with me, because usually with others he seems very confident, so I was a bit taken back, like I wouldn’t expect it,.

[BarryLiverstone]

Well yes we agree he looks good. But looks are just a start. If you feel taken aback then maybe you can be his friend and help him become more comfortable

[Asker]

Yes ok cool, I will try.

[BarryLiverstone]

Good luck. Maybe you can help him gain confidence and ask out other girls, as he hasn’t asked you out

[serious]

Yes, that is what it usually indicates.

[slatyb]

Ask him out and find out.

[Anonymous]

Probably, yes.

[In_Trance]

No it isn't