Guys, Do you think what my dad said was very harsh about my weight?

[Anonymous]

I always complain about guys not giving me the time of day or I don’t get hit on much anymore accept my creeps or fat men.
I am 5’10” 264lbs, curvy and chubby. Nobody would believe I weight much. I know I need to lose weight but I hate working out. My guy friend from college said, “No offense but maybe your weight is what is putting off men and men like women that take care of themselves. It’s best if you date a man in your league instant of lean, fit or good looking men. Or jocks.”

My dad told me today it’s beat if I dated a man (he’s a big boy, chubby, prefers bigger girls and chases me throughout middle and high school. He has the hots for me) in my league because good looking guys will break my heart.
He also told if he would have met my and if she was as big or weights as much as I did. He would have thought twice to look at her it pursue her.” That was so mean. Can’t believe my dad said that to me. My mom is a fit woman, slim. My dad is a tall, big man but he’s in shape and slim. What kind of calls his own daughter fat?

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The cute, good looking guys always like the fit or slender women. They wouldn’t even give me the time of day. Only average or fat guys like me.

[DonaldDarko]

It's more than just looks. That amount of weight is dangerous, you definitely should lose it.

[Asker]

I know I know!

[DonaldDarko]

Just lower your carb intake and get some kind of fitness routine. I lost a lot of weight just riding my bike up a hill and swimming for an hour or so. It just dropped off of me. You need to avoid fat and sugar though. You can not cheat any. Diet soda, no doughnuts. Just find something else to get pleasure from even if it's a video game. Take up sewing maybe. Get a sewing machine and make outfits, it'll give you some inspiration to not eat to pass the time, pass it with something else. Don't reward yourself with food. Never say "I've been doing good, lets go get an ice cream". Do something else rewarding instead, go to the mall, to the beach. Another thing is make sure you eat enough, if you're hungry a lot your body will start taking the calories you do take in and storing them as fat because it thinks it's starving. This lady is pretty smart about exorcise she might be worth a look. She really digs into it. https://www.facebook.com/sandysklarxfit

[bowenw]

A good guy will like your regardless of weight. Do as many things as you can to meet guys.

[Asker]

I hope so

[bowenw]

You may want to ask your doctor about weight and see if they can put you on Wegovy. Please feel free to DM if you wish.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[seeyounexttuesday]

you're not curvy or chubby. You are morbidly obese. You are unhealthy and damaging your body. You are setting yourself up for health problems and a miserable old age.

Eat better and work out. Lose the weight.

[Asker]

I can’t believe my dad said if he met my mom if she was as big or obese like I was, he wouldn’t even think twice or pursue her. He said it’s better to date a man in my league, like my guy friend. I’m not attracted to him. He’s overweight and a big boy too. He never liked the hot girls.

[seeyounexttuesday]

IDGAF. lose weight.

[jahaims]

You're morbidly obese. Your dad told you the truth. If you are that overweight you are making weak choices.

[Asker]

He was so rude! I’m sick of men rejecting me

[BarryLiverstone]

Your dad was honest and trying to help motivate you.

[Asker]

Well he was rude!! I can’t believe he also said I should date a man my own league

[BarryLiverstone]

Not rude. You have had lots of time to focus on your health

[In_Trance]

You already know the truth about this I don't know why you asked here

[Asker]

I just wanted advice from others