Why aren’t I interested in the guys that pursue me. But the guys I pursue, are not interested in me?

The guys that do try to pursue me, for some reason I end up not feeling a connection with.

But then when I pursue a guy, he’s not into me.

How do I work with this matter rather than trying to understand it?
Why aren’t I interested in the guys that pursue me. But the guys I pursue, are not interested in me?
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