For a man to be vulnerable does he have to love the girl?

[Anonymous]

Like can he be vulnerable with any girl or does he have to love her to let his guard down?

[ToastWithEggs]

Depends on the man, some men are more comfortable outwardly displaying their vulnerability than others whilst other guys I've met find it difficult being vulnerable even with the women they love.

In my experience when it comes to guys as described in the latter; and of course this is purely an anecdotal observation, they may find it easier showing weakness around other men whom they are close to since there is a perception that another guy would be able to better understand their grievances or they may prefer a more non-chalant/casual demeanor that is usually adopted when men respond in counsel.

Some men may even find it easier sharing with people they randomly come across in a pub for example. In such cases the guy probably feels fear in showing weakness in front of the people whom he knows are dependent on him for strength and stability. Furthermore, there isn't a fear of judgement as; in many cases, you'll probably never see that person again.

For me personally, I do not need to love someone romantically to able to open up. I find it easier to seek reassurance from women but only from those whom I'm close to.

[Alex-Snow]

I think it varies from guy to guy. If he is comfortable with a girl but not yet in love he may let his guard down. I have.

[Anonymous]

It depends on the person. Personally, I do it extremely rarely.

[Anonymous]

Vulnerability is about someone else knowing your weaknesses. It has nothing to do with love.

[jahaims]

Guys don't have universal personalities lol