Girls, Is it a bad thing if a man is being emotional and sensitive?

[DenizLikesTennis]

Yes, it is😐

No, it's cute☺️

[Smoke-n-Growls]

It depends.

Is he able to process those emotions in a normal timeframe? Or is he out of sorts for four days if I tell him I didn't like something he said?

It's good for people to be in touch with their emotions and capable of feeling and expressing them.

But if they're going to be pulling grade school silent treatment and can't process their feelings, that's the opposite of being "emotional". It's having a lack of emotional intelligence and regulation. Which is unacceptable for a grown adult.

[Lynn2001]

I assume what you’re saying includes women too?

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Yeah, any human, really. Emotional regulation is a key life skill for anyone.

[Autember]

I do not want a guy who is more emotional than me, but I definitely would like a guy who didn't suppress all his feelings. Showing vulnerability is a very sweet trait.

[Anonymous]

it can be both cute and a really big turn off. depends on what you mean by emotional/sensitive, if he acts like that in front of everyone, etc depends on a lot of things.

but basically (for me at least) if your a guy it's a really big turnoff if you cry in front of other people unless it's something really bad like you just got a call saying your brother died, and if you are open about the fact that your sensitive to other people especially to other guys. like if you can say stuff like "i cried so much watching that movie its so sad", "my mom yelled at me earlier and i felt like crying" to other people it's really a big turnoff. It's also not cute if behind close doors you cry a lot too (if your alone and no one knows don't care though though) and when you cry you wail, sobb, scream and stuff (i think when guys cry if it's front of other people, they should cover their face and try to not make any weird noises or act really pathetically like throwing themselves on the floor and start wailing. or else it's a bit embarassing).

if by emotional though you just mean they get easily upset (without crying), pissed off, rilled up, etc call me weird but it's kinda sexy (love intense & passionate guys) unless it's to a point where it's annoying. it's also a good thing if by sensitive you mean he has lots of empathy

[WonderBell99]

Of course not. If anything, it is a turn on. I absolutely love it when a man is sensitive, kind, caring and affectionate with me. I also like it when he is protective.

What is your definition of emotional though? Does he get aggressive when he is angry? Does he not handle his emotions well? Expressing your emotions only make you human. It is absolutely normal. Don’t you worry.

If he is able to communicate his feelings to me in a mature way, and is vulnerable with me and heck, even cries in front of me, I would probably give him a hug and provide him emotional support.

[DenizLikesTennis]

Thanks for sharing your opinion 🙂 by emotional I mean like as being soft inside.

[WonderBell99]

I adore it when a guy is soft and mushy. It’s a good thing. I don’t think most women would consider it as something bad.

[DenizLikesTennis]

🙈😬😆

[Greergr]

Any person is allowed to have normal emotions. If you aren't healthily handling your feelings, like hiding them deep down or wallowing in them for months, that's when it is terrible. Men are allowed to feel put out or have a grieving period. Most women are not nasty creatures that expect men to be stoic and show no emotion 24/7. We want a rational, sensible, and sweet partner. I don't know how this allusion that we are emotionally stunted, unfair, cruel, and uncaring creatures came about, but it is not valid. If a guy feels like that, I genuinely feel sympathy, and I don't want their past experiences to stunt them for the rest of their life. Because in the end, it will just stop them from finding happiness with a partner that genuinely cares about them.

[Rania05]

It depends on how he put it, if he's going to be verbally abusive without reflecting on it right away or making amends later I'm going to dump him in no time. False promises and sweet lies are just going to give the breakup a push ahead of time.
If he's going to cry too much, I think I can go for it, if he gets better and don't suddenly ruin the atmosphere by being paranoid.

[daisydukeso]

no, it's relatable and lets me know that I can also freely express my emotions without being judged

[bubblegunnn]

Brooo its normaallll...
Man's heart not made from a stone

[LazerBean]

Just like with women, there are times that justify being emotional. But if you are emotional and sensitive all the time for no reason then you're just annoying.

[ochitougly]

Lol literally!!!

[Lowiu]

It depends a bit on how much but its always better than some closed up man who eats anything into himself and reacts with toxic masculine outbreaks once he's filled up.

[2Wheels]

No, it's actually attractive when a man can show his feelings.

[petitedollbabee]

No, but it’s not “cute”, it’s normal. It’s part of being human, regardless of gender. You’re not less of a man if you’re showing emotions.