I’m okay in terms of physique, I’m like a 6-7/10. However, I’m not really “feminine”, “warm” or “vulnerable” in my personality. I’m an INTJ, for those who know MBTI (= productivity autist).
I’m very private, stoic, and rational. I don’t share emotions, I judge people I see as incompetent/lazy/unintelligent, I am hard working and am goal-oriented. They idea of playing dumb, feigning weakness, or agreeing with everything a potential partner might say feels disingenuous to me. I fall in love intellectually, I must feel like a partner adds value to my life, encourages my goals, and pushes me to be a better purposeful person and vice versa. Is my only choice to date other INTJ men? The idea of “submitting” to a man and not being equal with him in a relationship disturbs me. Masculine men, what do you think?