Why would a man say that he has no feelings for a girl, yet still message her whenever he gets the chance?

[jutletmego]

[SueShe]

Given the additional details that you gave elsewhere, it looks as if that guy is basically trying to get in the good books of his ex. Why? Simple. He is desperate to get into her pants and that is why he is messaging her.

He is a toxic person but he still has his needs that he does not know how to satisfy elsewhere, so he keeps the backdoor open, just in case she falls for his scheme.

I hope that the girl is intelligent and clever enough not to give in and not to give him the opportunity to get what he is so desperately seeking.

[Screenwriter]

Someone can message someone repeatedly because he gets something from messageing. Doesn't mean he likes or loves her. He wants contact, company, someone to chat with.

This isn't about going out with you or spending quality time with you, or is someone you can depend upon if you have an emergency. So don't be confused.

[Alex-Snow]

He just may be lonely or is still new to relationships or sex. Are the messages sexual in nature?

[jutletmego]

Situation is really complicated but no messages werent about sexual things

[Alex-Snow]

I assume this guy is your boyfriend? Is it messing with your relationship or sex life with him?

[Alex-Snow]

Just messaged u

[Spencer10]

Lots of people say things they think others want to hear... they avoid conflict.

[jutletmego]

So what does he want from me

[Spencer10]

Well maybe you need to ask him?

[jutletmego]

I asked him and he said i dont want anything from u i am acting everyone to same way

[Anonymous]

Maybe he does have some feelings but hiding them.

[Abbycado]

They are friends?

[jutletmego]

They are exes

[Abbycado]

So why don’t you include that detail? Smh

[DryGermanGuy]

He might just like her body. 🤷‍♂️

[jutletmego]

He is sleeping with other girls but still want to stay in contact with mr

[Chrytina84]

Your back up from sounds out it.

[jahaims]

He wants validation

[jutletmego]

But why? It is so confusing

[Anonymous]

Why not?

[jutletmego]

But whyyyyy it is so confusinggg