Guys, how do you know the gal you're willing to have a relationship with vs. the gal you're just going to mess with?

[DishLady]

[Anonymous]

Well for one if she’s been passed so runs the block a number of times she’s definitely just for fun. No dude will take her seriously. The only ones who would are usually your betas who can’t meet a quality girl. Usually she will take him but chances are she’s going to push him around, get tired of him cause he’s not a “real man.” As for the ones I like. I like the ones who are somewhat shy, not a look at me look at me girl. I don’t like women who are loud and obnoxious when they drink. I don’t want a girl who has to be the center of attention. Who is feminine w a feline voice. She’s nice, caring, sweet, innocent. She’s girly but not extremely girly. I like a girl who’s good w a pair of jeans, a t-shirt and ball cap and we’re on our way. But she can be very feminine when need be w out even having to try. I like a girl who can cook, who likes to be a stay at home wife.

[worldscolide]

I never really did that. When I was dating it was always supposed to lead to marriage.

Looking at how it is now though, there are women, if I were single, that I'd never approach, because they would be one night stands. They are usually heavily tatted, party frequently, heavily pierced. And engage in hookup culture. All of which scream "not marriage material"

[DishLady]

I mean what you feel, not something the gal is doing or tats etc.

[worldscolide]

My feelings are almost always based on attitudes and behavior of the person that is a potential love interest.

[OlderAndWiser]

Would I be proud to introduce this woman to my family and friends, or would I keep her separated from the rest of my life?

[spartan55]

I don't know. I don't have a checklist.

[DishLady]

I mean THE FEELING.

[spartan55]

Feels like I am willing to be in a relationship with her... I don't get what you're asking.

[DishLady]

I mean… you’ve been around a gal for a while, perhaps a bit flirty, but then you FEEL compelled to go past just flirting to relationshipville, not just hookup juncture….

[spartan55]

Right... what about it?

[Staximus]

When I know she actually gives a fuck

[Staximus]

And I'm convinced that she's a sincere person

[Staximus]

When I know she will tell every other guy to go piss up a flagpole

[MasterKS]

Her attitude and behaviour.

[DishLady]

No no. I mean internally, how do YOU KNOW that this is your gal?

[MasterKS]

@DishLady Vibe!

[DishLady]

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