My boyfriend brings his creepy friend over what can I do?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend has a guy friend & he didn’t really do anything that I can point my finger at and tell my boyfriend. He gives creepy vibes & i am really good at telling who is a creep he basically “eye fucks” me. I constantly notice him starring at my body. I wear only conservative clothes around him cause his eyes violate me. When i notice him starring i show him that i know i look him dead in the eyes and cover myself with a disgusted look on my face. Anyway I don’t feel safe when he is around but my boyfriend insists he is a good friend of his & even allows him to sleep over which is a big problem. Even when my boyfriend is not in the house he would show up & claim he forgot something which stresses me a lot. I feel like he didn’t do anything which i can share with my boyfriend so I don't know what to do 😩

[Summeroflove]

He’s your boyfriend there should be communication. Look, imagine if he felt uneasy by one of your friends…. Would you want him to tell you? And sometimes yeah you pick up on things subconsciously maybe he’s a decent dude I don’t know.

I think you should be honest with your boyfriend about how you feel. You seem loyal…. I mean honestly let’s say you have a friend that’s eyeing him you don’t notice it…. But he does and it gives him that feeling. Would you want him to tell you?

I mean. Be honest. That’s it. If you don’t feel safe. Tell him…. If you get a bad feeling tell him. If he’s giving you those eyes tell him… he’s your boyfriend. There should be communication

[TonyMetal___86]

Your boyfriend sucks!
Any man who is in a relationship should provides safety and joy, no matter who the person is, if i had a girlfriend who notices that a guy is bothering her, i'll stop bringing him in and if he's a close friend, i'll meet him outside without my girlfriend being present!

[miana]

Definitely have an open discussion about it with your boyfriend, if something makes you uncomfortable then it should be addressed, and something can actually be done about it, no matter the reason.

[DishLady]

You tell your guy that you don't appreciate the inappropriate attention from his friend.

[snermcger]

Do you own/rent this place together? Is your name on the mortgage/lease agreement?

If so, tell his friend to FO in no uncertain terms. Tell him he is a creep, you know he is a dirtbag, and to get lost.

Don't put up with that shit in your own house? Fks wrong with you?

[live2dance25]

Why don’t you have an open conversation with your boyfriend that his friend is making you uncomfortable? That would be the first place to start, in my opinion.

[aceleon]

your boyfriend is a cuck if he allows a male friend sleep in the same house as his girl.

[Mrtcn01]

you should talk directly to him not to your boyfriend...
I think he is not that creepy if he is realy best friend not a beast friend of your boyfriend.

[stratford]

Try dressing in a very sexy / skimpy way and see if it makes a difference. You want to see if it is you or your body he has an issue with.

[888theGreat]

Tell him if the friend sleeps over , you go visit a friend and stay over there , Tell him that they can play hide the sub together. You do have a single female friend?

[888theGreat]

Same vibes Trump gives off?

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Tell your boyfriend. It bothers you it should bother him.

[LiamS95]

You can still tell your boyfriend how you feel and how this guy gives you the creeps especially when he strips you naked with his eyes.

[_Troian_]

maybe your boyfriend is a cuck and he wants to watch you both thats why he brings him over.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Tell Beau to ditch Bubba or you'll get rid of Beau !!!

[slatyb]

Your home? Your rules. Dump the boyfriend

[In_Trance]

Talk to him about it