What’s one thing men wish women understood but we often get wrong?

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Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

Men aren’t mind readers. Say what you mean and mean what you say and that will end 49% of confusion and drama in heterosexual relationships.
Similarly, you can expect a man to say what he means and mean what he says. When you stop looking for hidden meaning in his words and actions or, worse, projecting thoughts and feelings onto him that he hasn’t expressed, you will end another 49% of confusion and drama in relationships. The remaining 2% is easily mastered with a steady stream of open and honest communication.
Men are pretty simple. Chris Rock might have said it best. “Feed him. F*ck him, and shut the f*ck up!”
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If you do that for a good man, he will crawl through broken glass and battery acid to keep you happy.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I dont think you get anything wrong. You have to be you if your not then your fake

We are all different and the best part about being with somebody is figuring that out and adjusting to it that's what love is all about

rgb008 · Accepted Answer

Don’t eat all the Parmesan cheese from the fridge at night. I made that mistake multiple times, just personal experience.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Men want to be right about everything. It kills them when it doesn't go their way.

gasman70 · Answer

we are not mind readers, neither emotionally, nor mentally and absolutely not in bed. If you want something, tell us about t. I can't tell you how many times women have told me, if you loved me, you would know. If I was a mind reader, I would be a billionaire.

glennos89 · Answer

That we prefer to see woman naturally. Men dont like all the fake stuff woman put on themselves and we definitely dont like body modifications.

Some woman these days look more like Transformers then their beautiful natural self

OneViewpoint · Answer

Direct fucking communication. Like something? Dislike something? Want something? Want something to stop? Need something? Want to eat Italian? Don't want eat Italian? Say it.

Anonymous · Answer

I know they are going to mess things up at the beginning by saying and doing the wrong things, so if I'm interested I give them a few tries to get it right. If it turns out they actually are stupid and not just nervous, then I'll walk away.

browsingthroughthe · Answer

@Angelbabylips not all of us men are selfish, ego pricks 😄😁😃 And the ones who are nice or kind, we're not all nerds or freaks lol 😆 or even ugly lo l

AviatorTom · Answer

We guys are really simple creatures, please stop trying to analyze everything we say and do. You girls will be wrong most of the time.

_Jenny_ · Answer

@angelbabylips They want you to think that they are listening to you

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing. This is just natural selection. I learned a while ago, the women that truly want to understand, eventually will. The ones that would rather remain stubbornly ignorant, will as well also.

Jackblue · Answer

Being in a dark alley alone with a woman isn't just scary for the woman it is scary for the man. I am not saying that false accusations are as bad as sexual assault, but they still scare us a lot.

Anonymous · Answer

If you casually change let's say your bra in front of us and are topless or walk out of the shower naked, or bend over in front of us or are looking hot in a dress... then we are going to want to f*ck

MrChinaski · Answer

That men want inspiration. Someone exciting, edgy, a little wild, confident, creative, passionate and engaged. Or at least that's what this humble man wants.

admles · Answer

We aren't mind readers. We generally don't know what you're thinking, what's wrong, what we did, that's why we ask.

Communicate DIRECTLY, don't use hints, don't skirt around the issue.

Say what the problem is.

6942Dantheman · Answer

In fact, we can just not think of anything.
We NEED sex, not just want it. Especially after marriage.
We are far simpler than girls think we are.
If you become our calm, fulfill our sexual needs, and feed us. We will do anything for you.

DonaldDarko · Answer

It's not really as much about understanding or anything cognitive as much as basic nature and inclinations.

Anonymous · Answer

We’re not as complicated as you make us out to be. The reason we’re complicated to women is because women put too much emotions into what they think we’re thinking or what we’re doing.

Finchie40 · Answer

That we have feelings as well , And that it isn’t always about her.

Anonymous · Answer

There is a misconception that women want sex for emotional reasons and men just want sex for physical satisfaction, which is nonsense. Sex is just as important for emotional health for men as it is for women, just in different ways.

Desi_Butcher · Answer

That we only care about pussy

Jersey2 · Answer

BJ’s make wonderful gifts. No need for a birthday present.

Smegskull · Answer

Indifference is not hatred. Women seriously underestimate men's ability to just not give a shit about most things.

kaucky1 · Answer

Wish that bad volo stays ungranted from all multi verses for all existences of all rounds and drugs gets better

crazyengineer · Answer

Men always want sex on the 1st date. This is actually not the case.

zagor · Answer

That playing hard-to-get and not wanting anything to do with us sometimes look very similar.

AgentG111 · Answer

We are different for a reason don't try and change us.

Darkest-Knight · Answer

If you're not going to swallow don't bother doing the deed.

AglaiaChr · Answer

That sexual behavior (not talking intercourse, but general closeness and appraisal of each others bodies) is good, not bad.

Factual_person · Answer

Sex is not rocket science so you don't need "experience" to be good at it. If you want true equality you should split the bill.

Anonymous · Answer

That men can look at other girls but still care about you

Bradleyyeldarb · Answer

Having a sexy body gets you noticed, but what value you bring to our home makes you desirable.

Bad2daBone22 · Answer

How much we need intimacy

NathanDavis · Answer

women don't get me wrong

bowenw · Answer

We think you look great just the way you are.

888theGreat · Answer

Men are physical/visual

832dreamboy · Answer

We're ALWAYS after your body, gals !!!

MasterKS · Answer

men operate by his dick.

idontkno1 · Answer

That men ONLY want sex.

Anonymous · Answer

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