Why are men so desperate to meet women?

[Kelley1]

In a month, I receive a couple hundred messages; almost none that I replied to.

[AviatorTom]

It's not that they are desperate to meet women, its just that they outnumber women on dating sites/apps more than 20 to 1.

It's not unreasonable to see lots of men sending a woman messages.

Think about it. Women have a much easier time meeting and picking up men.

A woman walks into a bar and has her choice of any of the several men to take home. A man walks into the same bar, and he's lucky if he can get a woman to talk with him, let alone go home with him.

[nastyb]

That's actually not true. I never get approached at bars. Guys call me beautiful but no one ever shows interest. I only wish a man came along and asked for my number

[CuriousTenya]

@nastyb Your example does negate: "A woman walks into a bar and has her choice of any of the several men to take home." but not the rest of the comment.

Guys are indeed intimidated to approach.

The thing is that men wanting to date, still greatly outnumber the amount of women who want to. Anonymous polls had revealed more, and more women do not seek a relationship. The number of men, who don't also grew recently, though not nearly as much, and there is thus a growing gap.

Good that you've mentioned your case, as it's an existing issue, but otherwise the disparity does hold true.

[nastyb]

@CuriousTenya

it's actually not true that most women don't want to date. Most women do want to date. It's a human need to want to be loved and feel loved. If you meet someone who does not want to be loved, there is something wrong with them.

It's just men are no longer flirting or asking women out due to poor social skills. Historically, men have always been the braver gender- asking girls out, making the first moves. But now, men have all become beta males.

It is also true that women have an easier time being single than men because men have more sexual needs than women. Men being more desperate for sex than women does not mean men want love more than women. It just means they constantly need a body to fuck,

[lightbulb27]

@nastyb is your name indicative of what it's like to approach and deal with you, or just a joke? I will say in general, guys can be intimidated. Noone wants to suffer, and that can happen even if you are well meaning. Until they get over their fear, you are dealing with fear. Even if you approach them, you will be dealing with fear.

[nastyb]

@lightbulb27

Men are the braver bolder gender. Who leads countries? Who start and fight wars? Who runs into fires to save people? Who makes up the vast majority of high risk industries such as investment companies? Men!

The issue is that men are no longer the brave men they once were. So now the women have to step up to be masculine to make up for his Lack of masculinity

[lightbulb27]

@nastyb It may be related to the drop in testosterone of males and rise in females?

[nastyb]

@lightbulb27

it could be that. but I think there is more to it than just testosterone. It's social conditioning that men and women are the same / equal. You never see this in other countries though. Only in western nations are men and women assumed to be exactly the same. We are not designed to be the same. Doesn't mean they can't be equal. But there is a reason why women give birth and men do not.

[nastyb]

@lightbulb27

One of the reasons is becase men have it way easier nowadays than ever before. 150 years ago, men hunted animals for food. It was a dangerous job. Men built houses with their bare hands. Men fought predators to protect their families. Doing these things required testosterone. But nowadays, men are reduced to nothing more than to leave the house 9a in the morning, then come back within 9 hours, all just for a paycheck. Men no longer know how to fight. Do you know the reason why young men are so obsessed with video games while girls aren't?

because video games are fight simulations. It is a simulation of what their brains are designed to do hundreds or thousands of years ago. They no longer run around forests hunting animals, so their only outlet are running around in the video games on the screen.

it is the same reason why men are so obsessed with sports while women aren't. Because men are born to chase, fight, compete, conquer. why do you think men started so many wars in the past? because men had testosterone and were born to fight.

It's just nowadays a lot of men live with too much comfort. They no longer build homes, hunt for animals, or even have to protect their families- just call 911 and police will deal with it. why wouldn't testosterone decrease?

[lightbulb27]

@nastyb So right! I have to say, it throws them for a loop emotionally. If they can't provide, they fail at it, they get depressed, don't know their place. That's why too many boys are bored and sad. Seen too many young people "lost". It's because they haven't made the changes as society evolved, or devolved, not sure which it is. I'm glad htere's less war and fighting.
Heck, look at how lamed up sports is now. I saw the players laughing and cheering the other team on after they won on a field goal in NFL. What a joke, that means you lost the war and got killed:)!! Since they get paid millions, they don't care. Maybe start the NFL football snaps with "paddy cake bakers man" routine? Kids will dig that.

[nastyb]

@lightbulb27

I don't believe most young men can't provide. By young men, im talking about those that are 25 to 39. Most of them have jobs, are educated, make decent money. But cost of living has risen so much, their paychecks haven't increased at all. Since the 2000s, its required two parents working to raise children. Two working parent situation is not a surprise at all. It's something that existed even during the 1990s. It's just something we need to accept. Issue is that most young Americans don't know how to spend responsibly. Once the child comes out, no more spending 30 dollars on drinks at the bar, no more eating out at nice places. These kids were raised during the golden age of America 1990s where they could buy anything they wanted back then. It's a habit difficult to break. Being frugal is something uncommon in American culture but commonplace everywhere else.

Grandparents also need to step up and play a role on grandchildrens lives. Unfortunately our culture just isn't family oriented, leaving young parents to struggle alone working full time jobs and raising kids all alone

[lightbulb27]

@nastyb all valid. First world problems, parents are essential to train the kids against the waste promoted by the system. It's hard work as kids get spoiled... seen so many discard 1/2 bottle of water, won't take the time to recycle it and get the.10c. But I see older people doing that. My grand parents were even more severe... when you live without lukcy to hav ea nickle, and play with marbles, ya think different.
So many young I see today get their fast food delivered. That's crazy waste to me. they need trained but the govt and corporations cannot do it... their job is to screw people.

[nastyb]

@lightbulb27

It's like that with a lot of older americans too. Historically, america has always been the world's wealthiest country- which enabled them to live privileged lives. Middle class america during the 1990s was the equivalent of the upper class in many other less wealthy countries. So all of a sudden, US is no longer the wealthiest like it once was. That's why they have such a hard time getting accustomed to living more frugally. Your spending habits are developed based off of watching your parents spend. If your parents had a habit of walking into stores and grabbing everything they ever wanted, you will do the same in adulthood.

[lightbulb27]

@nastyb yes, we have to learn. some are still rich, but many more are not. but they've been trained to be spenders, waste, consume. It's the mind control that manages the economy.
China is on the rise, they will take a powerful position going forward. I've been there, it's going well for them.

[nastyb]

@lightbulb27

Do you know why china is on the rise?

because culturally, their kids are pushed to always do better, work hard so a better life will come

in america, the kids are not expected to meet any expectations since they are already living the privileged life. Everything is already provided for... they have no reason to work hard. In the 1990s, any dumbass who failed in school could get a job and manage to buy a house and support a family. And you pass this down to the next few generations... that's when you run out of smart people and have to import foreigners as CEOs or rely on the H1B visas to import foreign geniuses.

[nastyb]

@lightbulb27

take a look at CEOs of nvidia, tesla, google, AMD. aren't they all foreign?

[lightbulb27]

@nastyb correct!

[lightbulb27]

China doesn't have the watered down distractions we have. They focus on taking the best, finding the best and building them. The rest aren't needed and are put in menial jobs. Its very competitive there for top positions. thats why many want to leave, opportunity is elsewhere, but it is a "well managed" country in some regards.
USA must be intentionally destroying itself. It's like a NFL football game we are down 47-3 but our team thinks they will win, so they are eating bonbons and doritos during breaks.

I'll say this, I am VERY thankful of RFK Jr and Trump for attempting to fix some of the stupidity. Dislike what you want (anyone reading this), they are trying to address some issues. But its small. We will still feed our people garbage in food, mind and soul as it's profitable and then sell them drugs for the rest or expensive procedures, which is also profitable. The Chinese won't touch our garbage and will protect their people as Europe has to some extent.

[lightbulb27]

It's good you have some awareness and clarity, how did you develop that?

[nastyb]

@lightbulb27

americans live very insulated lives. Being an American but also growing up with immigrant parents gives me another perspective. You can't compare and contrast American culture if you don't know anything but the US. The decline of the US also has to do with how poorly structured our government is. To sum it all up in a brief sentence, there is no one directly and clearly in charge of this country. Even leaders change every few years, which leads to a country running aimlessly in all sorts of different directions. Anything that is accomplished within 4 years of presidency is unwound by the next president.

[lightbulb27]

@nastyb you must be Asian to see that, or French... but your writing is very solid, I cannot tell. My wife is immigrant American. We've traveled so we can see it better, you are right. We also see the food issues in USA. Yes, being nimble and changing has some advantages but currently, the "one good leader with long term vision" is superior.

[nastyb]

@lightbulb27

some foreigners' English is better than americans' English.

it has to do with the terrible education system in the US

[nastyb]

@lightbulb27

and just because someone does not look white, it does not mean they can't be American and speak fluent English. Just because someone looks white , it does not necessarily mean they must be American and speak English.

In this country, being white is the ultimate pass to being seen as American. It doesn't matter if you were born here, if you don't look white, you will never be considered American

[lightbulb27]

@nastyb yes I've seen that w relatives whom were born here. We are a mix of everywhere.

[Laws-Of-Existence]

Bro it's a damn daring site, which is designed for that kind of stuff. It might not be even real men. On top of that, it looks like 5 messages in the past 7 days. And again, if it says "new message" in the title that might be a reminder for the same unread message you were already notified of before, most sites do that to pull you back in.ㅤ

[Screenwriter]

Human beings want to connect! Men who like women want to meet women. That's not desperation, that's normal. And the easiest way to initially connect is online. Guys send out DMs to see if they'll get a response and go from there.

IT's the same at the club, at the park, in church, at festivals. at bars. Any place the two sexes assemble men try to talk to women. Always been that way.

[Screenwriter]

It's more HOPE than desperation!

[blackeagle007]

The modern woman today only dates the top 5%. And very stickup

[Screenwriter]

@blackeagle007 No. 1. Are these women the top 5%? Well then there's 95% below them who have no reason to be stuck up. Just keep looking. There are others to choose from who don't have inflated opinions of themselves... Just takes more work to know and meet them... Good luck.

[nastyb]

@Screenwriter

don't believe in what they say. A lotta these guys just like to talk shit about very attractive women who do not want them. Of course if you want a woman who is attractive, young and pretty, then she WILL have inflated standards. Your options are completely based off of your desirability.

[blackeagle007]

@nastyb so your saying attractive women have inflated egos?

[Kelley1]

@blackeagle007 We tend to have unrealistic standards. We can fuck Chat, so Chad is our standard. The problem is that Chad fucks down (fucks me) for sex, but he will marry an equal.

[nastyb]

@blackeagle007

People reject based off of how many options she has. Butt ugly women will accept anyone that comes along because she knows no man will ever show interest into her. She's lucky If she gets interest from Shrek

Attractive women have too many options which is why she rejects almost everyone

So chances are... if you see her rejecting every man, there is a good chance she has way too many options and is an attractive woman

[blackeagle007]

@nastyb ah, but as she gets older, her vaa a lye goes down. You won’t be young forever , when you reach 40, you will see that your options are very limited.

Guys no longer approach women these days anyway. Is that hard for you to notice? We’re tired of your unrealistic standards and drama. You all make false reports to police about us. Plus put us on Facebook, TikTok when we approach you. It’s not worth it anymore. There’s this news story, this women falsely accused this guy of trying to kidnap her child. Everything was on camera and later on charges were eventually dropped. She asked him for help with something at the store, then makes shit up. It’s attention you crave. I won’t help any woman when they ask for it. Too risky

[nastyb]

@blackeagle007

[ah, but as she gets older, her vaa a lye goes down. You won’t be young forever , when you reach 40, you will see that your options are very limited.]

well you won't be young forever either. Most men in their late 40s-50s either end up staying single or settling for single moms. Us, young women, generally aren't interested in old wrinkly saggy guys with dicks that don't work.

We don't have unrealistic standards at all. Our standards are directly measured by our appeal. The more appealing the girl, the more she will reject. The uglier she is, the less likely she will reject. So chances are if all the girls that you want are rejecting you, you are going for girls out of your league. Stop going for girls who don't want you, Go for girls who want you.

[blackeagle007]

@nastyb you sound terrible calling people and what not. I’m sure there’s guys that don’t find you attractive. Women like you are the reason why we never approach anymore. You act is if you’re an expert on attractiveness and you speak for everyone.

Get a better attitude young lady

[Kelley1]

@blackeagle007 You don't approach because you want young, beautiful girls who are out of your league. Approach big women your age. They may accept you.

[blackeagle007]

When did I ever say I wanted younger women? Do you have trouble reading?

Leagues don’t exist in adulthood. Only in small minds like yours. Besides you make no sense. I do t approach because I want younger women? If so I’d be approaching them right? Reality is I don’t. I think we shouldn’t approach at all.

Spice up your reading comprehension, pay attention young lady

[FreyaRed]

Mesh net fishing. I think just a small amount of men bombs mail folder of girls but this small amount is relentless.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for the world we live in there are a lot of horny mother fuckers out there & some guys are so horny they will hump a mailbox. As for you you’re beautiful & I guarantee guys on here are probably blowing up your inbox as well.

As for receiving a couple hundred messages a month that’s crazy & I’m willing to bet that half or close to all the guys that are messaging you are either married, divorced or in relationships looking for a little boom boom on the side.

The dating world is different nowadays & it seems like everyone does the online thing.

As for me I prefer offline dating, it’s the real deal & the online dating shit isn’t for me.

[Screenwriter]

Tho people CAN fool you IRL too, online it's so much easier. If you read body language, tone of voice, see how people behave in person, dress, hygiene, manners, visit their homes, meet friends and family, it's very difficult to keep up a longterm pretense. Catfishing is entertainment for interpersonally, emotionally challenged, unhappy people.

Ypu avoid the lion's share of such tomfoolery by hanging out with people on the regular in actual RL encounters.

I've found it shocking how people who profess love for each other through online talking, or phone calls only meet someone one time and their true love goes up in smoke. It's actions that count more than words...

[lightbulb27]

That's normal for online dating apps. Testosterone drive?

[Lliam]

Women are soft and cuddly. Making out with them is great. And sex is fantastic.

Some men find it easier than others to find girlfriends. I suppose it has gotten a lot harder in the digital age in which women have become pickier, people rely on apps and have lost the ability to interact in person.

Also, some girls have become materialistic gold diggers and many are picky about dick size. Those things, especially dick size, weren't an issue before the internet. So guys with average-size dicks or who aren't affluent get passed up these days.

Guys get inferiority complexes from watching porn and they, too, are seeking the perfect woman when it comes to looks. And they develop bitter attitudes toward women from watching red-pill influencers.

[nastyb]

Crazy how men love accusing women of being picky when 45 yr old guys only wanna date women 15 years younger.

[Lliam]

@nastyb. Right? Those re-pill guys are pissed because they can't find a naive, compliant, 22 year old virgin. LOL

[nastyb]

@Lliam

No woman would ever want a red pill guy. Women like respectful dudes. These guys hate on women because they know they can't get any woman in real life.

[Lliam]

@nastyb
It cracks me up when they talk about "traditional values".

[Kelley1]

@nastyb All men are attracted to young women, but younger women don't want them.

[glennos89]

The fact that girls have so many messages but dont respond to most of them is the reason why dating for guys is really messed up.

Its extremely difficult to have to compete with so many guys but woman want the man to make the first move so what should else can they do to get some attention from woman?

Dating is super easy for woman, for men its extremely hard to find someone if you dont have the flirting skills or the great looks

[Kelley1]

According to an OK Cupid survey, 80% of men are below average.
goodmenproject.com/.../
I believe at least 90% of men are below average.

[gasman70]

below average? of what? and saying that 80% are below average doesn't make sense, because average is 50% in the middle of the bell curve. so that math doesn't add up

[blackeagle007]

Uh Kelly1, you’re not attractive yourself. Sorry

[Kelley1]

@blackeagle007 Don't be sorry that, in your opinion, I am not attractive. I will make do, and your being sorry does not help me or change anything.

[gasman70]

so how is it that the math that 80% of men are below average? what is this average? what is the measuring tool, Kelley1?

[Kelley1]

@gasman70 80% are not real men. They don't count and shouldn't be included in the average.

[nastyb]

@gasman70

Most men on those dating apps aren't top tier guys. If you could attract women in real life, you wouldn't have to be on a dating app.

[gasman70]

oh ok, I get it now. thanks for the clarification

[gasman70]

@nastyb , I get it, most guys aren't the top 10% looking, earning, height, etc.

[nastyb]

@gasman70

It's filled with mid looking guys that no one wants in real life. And most of the "attractive dudes" on there are either fake profiles or men just looking to hookup.

You really don't need to be top 10% to find a woman. This lie is just created by unattractive guys with no social skills and can't talk to women in real life.

[gasman70]

@nastyb, so what's that about the 80% and the woman saying she thinks that 90% aren't worth it? I mean I've been with plenty of women, short term, long term, engaged 3 times, married once, threesomes, and I'm not saying this to brag, I'm saying to say that I've had women, most of these were not using the internet. The only one that was using the internet was the one I met and married. All the rest were not using the internet, meaning not on dating apps. The woman I married ended up ending the marriage, after several years and a child later.

[nastyb]

@gasman70

I have seen 5'4'' guys, broke, working as security guards making 10 dollars an hour, happily married with children. I have seen obese EMTs and cops who are married and with kids. I have seen uneducated, violent men who are married with children. It really does not take that much to find someone. The problem is if you don't have any social skills and you can't have reasonable expectations... you will struggle in dating.

If you're an unattractive dude, lower your standards
If you are a broke guy with no ambition, lower your standards.
If you can't talk to women, then you will stay single till you can finally start to face your fears.

[gasman70]

@nastyb, I understand that, all of it, hell, my dad who is 83 just found a woman, and is starting to bang her, from what he told me. It's funny, he's just pushy af, and that's what I think you just need to be, pushy. He gets women to talk to him all the time and they get all flustered too. it's funny, they have no idea about him, he's just pushy and he looks like an old dude driving around on the scooter in the store. I'm just saying, men want to meet women because of the biological principle of procreation, women are the gate holders.

[blackeagle007]

@nastyb can I ask you women this? You all demand top 5% of guys, really act like stickup princesses etc. what do YOU have to offer a guy? It’s time you ladies have some accountability. Just purely existing won’t fly

[nastyb]

@gasman70

Old men get horny too but their Dicks don't work.

[Screenwriter]

@blackeagle007 I've never demanded top 5%... Never been stuck up about anything but my sense of humor and brains. Not a beauty but attractive. I've always been entertaining, pleasant. I expect the same from a guy. My friends and family members are like this too! Attractive, fun, funny. Lovable. You don't have to look like or be Timothee' Chalamet, Denzel, Idris Or Brad!

[gasman70]

@nastyb this dick works

[nastyb]

@gasman70

every 50-100 yr old man says his dick works

[blackeagle007]

@nastyb you say you seem the type of guys you mentioned with women. Ever occurred those are women are only with those guys for their $? The asker here is clearly an example. Weird picture too

[nastyb]

@blackeagle007

very few women want to be with a disgusting old man just for money. Just like prostitution, which is something most women would not do.

[blackeagle007]

@nastyb Do you know about trumps wife? Are you kidding? Guys who make a lot of $ get the most women. It kinda says something about your gender

[nastyb]

@blackeagle007

there will definitely be some women who are into prostituting themselves for money. but not most. I don't know why it's so hard for you to accept this

[Kelley1]

@nastyb We would all be prostitutes if it paid, but it doesn't pay. To get paid, marry a rich guy, fuck him twice a week for a year, then divorce him and collect ten million. That is $100,000 per fuck. That is being well paid. If my pussy is only worth $1,000, prostitution is not worth it. That is not being paid. That is giving it away.

[nastyb]

@Kelley1

Only women without souls would do that. I don't think I can ever get close to sucking an 80 yr olds dick without being super traumatized

[gasman70]

@nastyb, I'm not 80, that might be why my dick works, I'm a healthy 55 year old

[nastyb]

@gasman70

very hard to find a man that age to be attractive. just being honest.

[gasman70]

@nastyb I understand what you're saying. It's all good. I'm a great guy, so what I don't have in looks I make up for in personality in a big way.

[blackeagle007]

@nastyb nasty and Kelly are both young, still at an age where looks is most important

[nastyb]

@gasman70

if you're a great guy, you wouldn't be single till 55. great high quality men tend to get taken by 35. i know this from personal experience.

[nastyb]

@blackeagle007

like i said, a woman's standards is completely based on her desirability. Only a woman with no options will settle for someone she's not attracted to.

[gasman70]

@nastyb , I have been engaged 3 times, married once, have had long time girlfriends other than that, short term girlfriends, a few one night stands, threesomes, so it isn't about not having a relationship until 55, it's just not having one at 55 suddenly. So, no, you don't know my situation and to assume makes, an ass out of u and me, get it, hahahaha. and all but my ex wife has begged me to take them back.

[nastyb]

@gasman70

being engaged 3 times and married once is a red flag. why didn't work 3 times? there HAS to be something wrong either with you or your decision making.

depending on why the marriage ended, it can also be a red flag.

Since you have been through so many women and still nothing has worked out, it can also be a red flag.

From what I have seen, men who are genuinely great guys, good character, good personality, social, have good jobs, somewhat attractive- all tend to be taken around the age of 30 or early 30s. If you are single after 35, you are second tier person.

If you are single beyond 40, you're a leftover.

The older you get, the harder it is to find a decent person. if you are single beyond 40, I would start to question why you are still single. Unless he has a really good reason why he is still single at that age such as having dedicated himself to school for a very long time for multiple advanced degrees or being sent to war for 10 years... it's gonna be a red flag.

[gasman70]

@nastyb so, being married for 20 years doesn't mean anything?

[nastyb]

@gasman70

married for 20 years does not guarantee you aren't a red flag. my father had been married in a toxic marriage since 1991. He is the biggest red flag I ever met. My mother only tolerated his abusiveness for 20 years because she was a push over and too tolerant as a person.

but to be honest, by your age, it's time for you to give up on finding love. There is a high likelihood it won't happen again. The reason being... vast majority of young women desirable to you will not be interested in you. Most young women want kids... and you won't have the lifespan, energy or money to raise them.

Secondly, a lotta divorced people around your age tend to be very jaded, bitter, and don't want to ever commit again.

Thirdly, most old people dont want other old people.

It's best to just start saving for retirement, find a few buddies to have fun with and enjoy the remaining years of your life. But if you think you are gonna go back and be 30 again, its unlikely it'll ever happen.

[blackeagle007]

@nastyb I get it. You’re perfect. How dare we men are born with average looks! You should write a book on that. by the way, how do you know what kind of women I try to meet anyway? You’re the expert here after all.

[nastyb]

@blackeagle007

bro, you definitely ain't got average looks if you are 45.

[blackeagle007]

@nastyb so what school did you go to and got this education? I take it you majored in physical attraction right? Do you know what I look like? It’s remarkable that you can tell how someone looks like even though you don’t see them.

You need to get off your high horse and grow up, young lady.

[blackeagle007]

@nastyb I’m sure you have an std too

[nastyb]

@blackeagle007

we are not attracted to you, why don't' you just give up? im willing to bet your dick doesn't even work

[blackeagle007]

@nastyb I’m betting your brain doesn’t work. You’re one of those feminists that’s hates all men and probably someone who makes false reports. And ur fat.

[nastyb]

@blackeagle007

you're the one making false reports that you are getting hotter as you're getting wrinklier, fatter and dick stops working

[blackeagle007]

@gasman70 Nasty is a fake know it all. I got her blocked. No way she’s going to determine my life

[gasman70]

@blackeagle007 I know she's jaded and thinks she knows it all, sadly, she thinks she speaks for everyone and she thinks she speaks for me because she thinks she knows me and she thinks she knows who I am and what I am and that I'm like the people she knows. It's funny, I am so unlike the people she's talking about. I'm super positive, super funny, super fun, I'm energetic, I'm in good shape, I've got a great personality. Here's what I think, she's a red flag, a big one.

[Kelley1]

@gasman70 I don't agree with @nastyb on every issue, but generally she tells it like it is.

[blackeagle007]

@gasman70 No shock if she’s a feminist and probably helps run the me too movement. Toxic groups no doubt. Terrible thing to say how a lot of men don’t have a chance, good way to bring down morale. But karma exists!

[gasman70]

@blackeagle007 facts, I just heard some women say that they like older guys and they see them as mature and that they prefer them. I think that Nastyb is just a person who is jaded and angry and wants to be mean to be mean. Kelley, she seems like she's just a bandwagoner, jump on the bandwagon, sure, older people are older, but I'm not looking for some 20 something woman, I'm looking for a 40 something woman. a 20 or 30 something would be way too immature and lacking in experience for me. What they believe to be important isn't what is important in the long run. So they scream and yell and become jerks and nasty about it and call it honesty instead it's just being shitty to be shitty because thats simply how they do things, like her name, nastyb, she's probably a nasty piece of S***.

[nastyb]

@gasman70

but marriage statistics and data does not support your stance.
Plus, there is a huge difference between liking an older man versus liking OLD men. I like older guys like 5 years older, not 15 years older.
Men have a prime too. I like them young, tall, strong, in shape with strong dicks. Not some old ass, weak, wrinkly, saggy motherfucker with a dick that barely works.

Look at marriage data... there is absolutely NO PROOF that young women are marrying significantly older men.

In the United States, the average age gap between opposite-sex husbands and wives is 2.2 years as of recent Pew Research Center analysis of Census Bureau data.

www.pewresearch.org/.../

If you only look at the map... women in vast majority of countries are marrying men less than 10 years older than them.

www.pewresearch.org/.../

I'm not here to lie to make you feel better. I'm here to tell you the truth.

[nastyb]

@Kelley1

Most of these men on GAG live a lie. I'm not gonna sit here and lie along with them so they can feel better about themselves. It's pathetic how so many people on here encourage others to live in delusion

[gasman70]

@nastyb no one asked you to do anything, so shove off.

[nastyb]

@gasman70

I'm not gonna apologize for anything. I've done nothing wrong.

[Kelley1]

@gasman70 You heard wrong. Few women are attracted to older men. They are attracted to his money.

[blackeagle007]

@gasman70 block her dude. She’s not worth the time , I did

[blackeagle007]

Who cares anymore? Good heavens you’re very toxic. It’s you and nasty that give women a bad name. Both of you are immature, love drama, materialistic and think ur perfect t 10’s. You especially are more of a 2

[Kelley1]

@blackeagle007 Another orange at the bottom of the barrel lashing out.

[blackeagle007]

Kelly, do you enjoy this?

[gasman70]

@blackeagle007 nastyb keeps saying shit I don't care about, then says she isn't going to apologize, no one asked for an apology, I just asked her to shove off. I agree with you, they think they're 10's when in real life they're probably fives at best.

[gasman70]

@blackeagle007, Kelley enjoys the drama as most women do. that's why they are always bickering with each other.

[blackeagle007]

@gasman70 yea those 2 think they speak for the entire female gender 😆. So they will go ahead and date perfect 10’s rich etc. then get cheated on, catch an STD (by the way HPV is cancerous) years later, their worth will go down and still expect rich and perfect 10’s

[gasman70]

@blackeagle007 yep and when they're dumped and cheated on they'll cry and complain that men are terrible, instead of going for men that might appreciate them, because they're idiots.

[blackeagle007]

@gasman70 that’s why they are block worthy. I’m all done

[nastyb]

@gasman70

of course it's obvious you do care because if if you didn't, you wouldn't be so angry and full of rage.

by the way, any woman in her 20s who looks like a 5 would still have way more value than a man nearing his 60s with erectile dysfunction

[gasman70]

because men are the key holders and women are the gate keepers, what good is a key without a gate. Women don't understand this because they are the gate keepers, keeping of the gate with a bunch of keys trying to fit their locks trying to open them up. I mean, I think the comedian Jerry Seinfeld had a good bit on it. Sex to men is like a car crash, it doesn't happen very often but when it does they don't know how it happened and there are body parts everywhere and it seems like it's surreal.

[capriVib]

You see guys like this everywhere, and I'm sure they send the exact same “hey, wanna get to know each other?” message to hundreds of other women too.

When I look at it, the whole thing already feels like a dating app anyway. Those places are usually like 20% women and 80% men, with a lot of guys just feeding women's egos, so yeah, it's pretty normal on dating apps. Honestly, even if a trans woman made an account there, she'd probably still get a bunch of messages.

[Phoenix98]

They aren't desperate to meet women but in terms of population on dating apps and websites men outnumber women disproportionately so because there's so many more men on those sites/apps compared to women those fewer women are gonna get a lot more messages then they normally would if the populations were more balanced.

[Kelley1]

Not all men are desperate to meet women, but 30% are because women refuse to fuck them. Women are not desperate to meet men because only 2% of women are unable to find men who will fuck them.

[Phoenix98]

Give it a few years and it'll be the opposite tides already startin to go that way.

[rtj1211]

I wonder how many of them are false personas created by AI. The test of AI personas is how many messages you get from one without ever replying to one or maybe ignoring officially? If it's more than 6, you can be 99% certain that it's not a human being.

[HighValue]

Do you realize that MOST of those are not messages from people and are automated by the system trying to get the members to message others? The dudes get the same kinds of fake messages.

Based on replies in the comments, your teachers have failed you because like most people, you don't actually understand what average means.

[blackeagle007]

Not on this site, but on another I get the same and hell, I don’t have a picture on my profile
😆. The asker is so high and mighty. Thinks every guy in the world wants her

[RavVid]

I think you have answered your own question. You have received a couple of hundred expressions of interest in a month and you could convert 30 at least to dates. More if you two timed the guys.

The dynamics of this is hypergamy and any vagina is good.

[MikeTheBartender]

Genetics?

An average girl in the bar may be approached by 20 guys In a night.

A Chris Hemsworth level guy may be approached by 1 girl... Maybe! And she's probably not hot.

Men, we are savage animals.

[Cidknee]

One if us has to be.

[MrChinaski]

Meaningful differences in gender balance on platforms together with convention that men approach first.

Differences multiply. Suppose you have 10 guys and 5 women on a platform and that every woman sends one approach and every guy sends two. Then the average guy gets 1/4 of an approach and the average woman gets 4 ... 16 times as many. And that's before you start removing people from the pool that actually find a match, which skews the gender ratio further.

[MrChinaski]

* errr 1/2 ... 8 times as many. whatever, you get my point.

[Mark_Est]

Men are not desperate, you are young, and men want women who aren't ruined by modern woman BS. Desperate is a 27+ woman who realizes that the endless messages stopped.

[Rorroto]

Nobody's bothered by "modern woman BS." That's not a men thing. That's rare minority thing.

[DonaldDarko]

They haven't dealt with women enough. Once they get bloodied up good they'll learn. Then they'll cry on some MGTOW or incel forum of something like that.

[andreasderjuengere]

What do you expect? A Bible Reading Club?

https://matelocal.com/

[Sevenpointfive]

yeah, why can't they just jerk off instead and leave women alone? i'm surprised it's not a crime to talk to a woman!

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

Your on a dating site. Its literally what it is used for. The majority of those guys just want to hit and quit and the rest you probably don't want to even know.

They aren't desperate, they are hunting for their next sex bot.

[JHNS98]

I mean, I've been on dating apps for a decade and had no luck with casual sex. I only ever made one connection, but our logistics was too impractical and she didn't have time for me anyway. Not just me though, she even admitted that she didn't have time to hang out with her friends.

[shortster]

Why are you matching with people who you have no intentions of talking to?

[Kelley1]

I am not matching with people whom I have no intention of talking to. That is not how the site works.

I signed up. I uploaded a profile and photos. Desperate men who signed up see my profile and photos and message me.

[shortster]

Oh, I thought that was a traditional dating app. If it just a site for desperate guys to message cute women you might reconsider having an active account if that bothers you.

[Kelley1]

I already canceled my account. After a couple of months, I was tired of my inbox being filled with messages- 98% from men I have no interest in.

[Lauraita]

There is way more unhappily single men then women

[Taranis_Thunor]

Would you rather be kidnapped by a Koryos warrior, loaded into his wagon & rode off into his yurt?

You should support the revival of an Indo-European worldview then. Or live in Kazakhstan where they still do this.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Sex i guess, take the sex part aside, you might see your inbox empty or maybe one or two every month or so...

[K_I_ngD_I_ck]

Women think that men are cheaters yet they don't know that 80% of men get no women. No compliments. No gifts.
Most men are actually invisible to women so the first sign of attention they might act weird.

[genericname85]

Imagine you never get any attention from the gender you desire. That's what it's like to be a cis man. If women would pay more attention to men, they wouldn't be so desperate but it seems women have the monopoly on validation and attention.

[aceleon]

maybe but maybe... it is just nature taking it's course? most heterosexual and healthy guys wants to get with womans. not that deep.

[Lesbologist]

Women are desperate as shit too. I don't care because I get pussy so constanstly that I just can't care.

[zagor]

Males have a very high biological urge to squirt their sperm into females.

[Iron_Man]

Which website on this site? You should know that they’re desperate here they want sex or cyber sex whatever they can get. Be smart. You’ve done well so far.

[NathanDavis]

I can only speak for myself

am not... lol

[ChicoFromThe305]

Cause women are growing in requirements, even the ones that don't even really add anything to the table lol

[Smegskull]

The more respectful word you are looking for is "eager".

[jshm2]

They aren't. That's likely just a bot wanting talk to you about your cars warranty...

[Alex-Snow]

They may want someone in their life or to start a relationship. I'm sure some just want sex. Wait for the right guy at the right time in your life.

[JamesRandiDebates]

Not desperate, but you look like a nice piece of ass. I would bone you.

[Drumlin2001]

It's much harder for men to date then it is for women. We just want someone to love

[Cidknee]

🎵Let me tell you 'bout the birds and the bees and the flowers and the trees🎶

[RedInnocent69]

Hormones. You’re also quite smart and attractive. I’m surprised more guys aren’t intimidated by you. You smarter than them

[astlavista]

Usually because they want connection, attraction, companionship, or simply don’t want to feel lonely.

[Siajanua2027]

desperation to meet the opposite sex is pretty much the same in both genders. Historically, men have been the chasers and women have been the chasee.

[fishbone77]

You're on a dating site asking why men want to date?

[blackeagle007]

This thread has ran its course. Time for it to be locked

[queenofcardio]

They're lonely

[Bklynbadboy12]

Men aren't women are way more desperate to meet men now a days

[Paige2006]

They want sex

[browsingthroughthe]

Indeed - with a 'the'

[whosnumber_1]

This is the purpose of man.

[browsingthroughthe]

That it is 👌🏻 🍌🤭 straight ofc

[MarkPayne]

Coz you beautiful

[Kelley1]

Thank you.

[AgentG111]

They are?

[doren680]

Demand and supply