Can men who consistently pursue much younger women be trusted to stay loyal?

[Peachie2050]

Everyone grows old so even a 20 yo with a 40 yo man will be 40 some day and he’ll want another younger girl. Most of them also have a very negative attitude towards aging so it’s very likely to happen. They also assume a man gets better with age. No one really gets better with age unless they become wiser and more mature. The women who want them because they have money would also go for a younger guy with money. The attraction is not towards your older looks.

[nastyb]

that was what I was thinking. That's why I steer clear of significantly older men. If youth is THAT important to him, wouldn't you think he would start cheating on you once you lose your youth? You gotta find yourself a man who prioritizes connection over looks.

Plus, just a side note: Top tier, great men don't tend to stay single into their 40s and 50s. If he is still single in his mid 40s-50, there is a good chance he is single for a reason. My advice for younger people is: find yourself a spouse while you are still in your 20s- early 30s. It really does get harder to find a decent person as you get older. Don't settle for leftovers that didn't get picked in the first round.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

If I speak for myself, I was loyal after marriage. Not much before. If I was loyal after, maybe just because I didn't have other options. The idea that I made this oath was really important to me. For any decent man, his word is very binding.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

"If I was loyal after, [...]"

That's speaking as a hypothetical if I wasn't married. I am. Over 16 years now. When I see pretty girl flirting with me at a bar, I say, "Let me introduce you to my friend! He's a bachelor!"

[BonzoInBitburg]

My wife is 20 years younger than me and when I'm 60 I won't want a 20 year old. I can't keep up. I'm very active and my wife is kinda active so we're going to slow down at the same pace. It's nice.

[nastyb]

sorry man, I feel bad for your wife. There is no real future to your marriage.

[BonzoInBitburg]

@nastyb LOL.

[MrChinaski]

A 60 year old may want a 20 year old wife, but is he really going to get one? I merrily overestimate my own charms, but even for me that seems like a ridiculous stretch.

[MrChinaski]

So, what are you doing Friday night? Pick you up at 8?

[shortster]

Depends on why he is pursuing them. If it is because she is hot; very unlikely. If it is because she is in her peak fertility and he wants kids; probably. But be cautious as the former will often claim to be the latter just to get sex.

[Alex-Snow]

If they are constantly doing that it is a red flag. Has this happened to you?

[Peachie2050]

I don’t date significantly older men

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Hence the reason alimony and child support exist. An insurance policy women have created to avoid having to be good wives.

[Nikki1989]

Nope.

[Evsisa]

No they can’t.

[Laurenvol]

lol no